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too many of us –
sometimes in an furtive way that drums the foul ideas deep into our unconscious mind
where they set about guiding our actions without our ever knowing it!
Subliminal association... sneaky, negative emotions that fly like
stealth bombers invisible to the radar of our logical, conscious minds!
People will go through all manner of twists and turns in order to avoid the pain of
neuroses created by their unconscious beliefs – even at the expense of denying
themselves something they are desperate to have (like, for instance, love and affection)...
Pain blocks our growth into complete individuals by acting as a obstruction to the
actions
that are needed to accomplish any meaningful goal.

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In other words, serving the pain becomes more important to us than serving the
goal
.
Here's the important thing to understand about toxic shame as it applies to our
need to meet women... it's not the actual rejection from a woman that provokes the
shame, it's what the action of attempting to meet a woman exposes about yourself --
that you're an emotionally “needy” guy -- in what you perceive to be some horribly
embarrassing fashion. That’s because of the fact that a shameless desire to be loved is
incomprehensible to your deep unconscious mind -- the part of you that controls your
involuntary emotional responses to everything that goes on around you. In your own
unique and twisted way of thinking, exhibiting a desire for affection unmasks the
shameful fact that you're a “weakling”!
This sets off a cycle of very painful self-loathing that must be shut off quickly and
at all costs. Some guys begin to rationalize their warped views to the point where it
becomes a sort of personal ideology. You find yourself starting to feel superior to other
people... idiots who go around exhibiting their shameful emotional needs like damn
fools! Didn't their mommas ever teach them not to act like that? See how convoluted
your thinking can get when left to fester unconfronted by rationality and reality?
If you find yourself paralyzed by a fear of rejection to the point where it has
destroyed your social life, take heed... your problem is not intractable. You are NOT
hopeless. I can show you very tangible steps that you can take to unravel your confusion.
Self-understanding is one-half the battle. The other half involves a gradual,
genuine increase in your confidence that occurs as a side-effect of obtaining the specific
knowledge of just what it is that makes men attractive to women. I’ll address this
concept further in Part 2 of this Mini-Course.

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Stop Forcing the Ball and Learn How to
Read Your Coverages
(That's good 'ol USA football lingo for all you overseas soccer-heads reading
along out there ;-)
You know how an NFL quarterback gets himself into trouble with the passing
game when he loses his confidence? He does it by forcing the ball... trying to throw it to
receivers who are double-covered, or to guys who appear to be open but really aren’t.
This happens because he fails to read the coverages the defense is showing him before
releasing the ball. A confident quarterback will read his coverages first
before letting
the pass go, and only then if the completion percentage looks to be good. The QB
who’s lost
his confidence will panic and try to jam the ball through tight coverage and
into a receiver’s arms -- and the result is usually an incomplete pass or an interception.
Football teams lose when their quarterback starts forcing the ball, and guys lose
when they try forcing a play by going after a woman without first taking the time to “read
her coverage” – i.e., to determine if she’s sending him any clues that she might be
interested in even being approached by him! Acting brazen and charging ahead
un
invited does not exhibit any courage, it actually displays a lack of confidence born of
desperation. It makes you look unattractive, and invites the very rejection that you fear
the most.
I watch what’s going on out there all around me like the little sneaky bastard that I
am, and you know what I see? That some of you guys are just begging to get your heads
lopped off because you're so f***ing STUPID! Here's how to immediately stop being
stupid with one simple little change to your behavior that will improve your odds of NOT
ever being rejected again by at least 100%! Ready?...
DON’T MOVE WITHOUT A CLEAR “GO” SIGNAL -- UNLESS YOU

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