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Coward's Totally Fearless Seduction System
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By Mike Pilinski
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Table of Contents
Table of ContentsTable of Contents Table of Contents
Key #1 Fear Management
Why Do I Fear Being Rejected by a Woman?
!Two Words: Toxic Shame
!Stop Forcing the Ball and Learn How to
Read Your Coverages
!Nice Guys = Feminized, Sexless Men
Key #2 Knowing Exactly How to Act
Around Women
What is it About Certain Men That Makes Them so
Attractive to Women?
!The Hidden Psychology that Underlies All
Man-Woman Relationships
!It’s All About Perceived Male Status
!The Seven Attributes That Women Love To See In Men
Key #3 Perfecting Your Dominant Male
Attitude
Is There Really a Male Display That Acts like a
‘Mating Call’ to Women?
!Any Woman Will Play the Game with Any Man
!Embrace Your Expected Role As a Man
!Manage Your Horniness Instead of Letting it Manage YOU
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Key # 1 * Page 1
Key #1... Fear Management
Why Do I Fear Being Rejected by a Woman?
Two Words: Toxic Shame
I’m going to clue you in on something that you may or may not believe when you
first hear it, but in your heart of hearts I know you will understand it to be the God’s
honest truth. It’s simply this: your problem with whatever fear you might be
experiencing when it comes to having your advances rejected by a woman can be traced
to a deeply conditioned form of SHAME that has been 'linked' (associated) to your
normal, natural human need for affection.
That’s right, you are profoundly ashamed to meet and seduce women!
Here’s how it happened. Due to some kind of warped association that was
created in your head (probably during the earliest years of your life), you cannot act upon
a normal desire for love and affection without the emotion of shame getting involved
somehow. Whenever you encounter a situation in your life where you have an
opportunity to ‘reveal’ that you would like to experience some affection from a woman
(like everyone else in the world), you are overwhelmed by a suffocating sense of
humiliation which paralyzes you to act in your own best interest. Two completely
dissimilar and unrelated emotions -- affection and shame -- have become 'joined at the
hip' in the unconscious recesses of your mind.
Since it remains impossible to hit on to a woman without implying some kind of
longing for love and affection at the root of your motivation, the only way to keep the
shame you feel at bay is to avoid expressing any desire towards women at all costs
. In
other words, if there was a way to court a woman without somehow expressing this need
for affection you would do it -- but of course there isn’t, so you can’t. This single,
monstrous psychological handicap takes you completely out of the game of love,
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romance and seduction and makes it impossible for you to compete for the available
females with all the other men in the world. This is the structural
basis of your problem.
When feelings of shame become so powerful and controlling
that they are life-damaging to your ability to fully experience an
important part of Life, they are considered toxic.
The need to secure affection in our life is a very basic, normal
human need, one
that begins to form at a very early age -- possibly as a continuation of infanthood for all I
know. The key idea here is that it’s normal
and natural to feel this desire! Human
beings have developmental needs that seek to find expression during the process of
growing up, a journey that begins in childhood and winds a twisting pathway through
young adulthood. The major players in this epic are almost always our parents, because
they alone have access to our minds at the most critical time in our life when the first
light of consciousness begins to form in us.
Parents have to encourage, guide and support the various emotional needs that
begin to emerge as we grow through early childhood... or there’s gonna be trouble! At
the very least, they should find a way to allow
our emotions to occur as they seek to, and
manage their expression without associating them with feelings of humiliation and
shame. Unfortunately, shame-associating is exactly what happens for
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