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thecharacteristics and habits of deer, moose, caribou, bison, and wild hogs. Likewise, serious loveHunters and Huntresses must be well versed in gender differences if they intend to make the kill.Part Five briefs you on how to avoid the most common early-date turnoffs to make even the mostwary Quarry comfortable letting down his or her guard. Love-shy Quarry who usually take flightwhen a man or woman gets too close will happily come within firing range of your arrow.VI. Rx for SexHow to Turn on the Sexual ElectricityMany books on how to turn on your partner make sex sound like flipping the switch on thenight-light next to your bed. "Press here to speed up orgasm. Stroke there for an extra charge." Yes,sexuality is electricity, but your Quarry's bodily buttons only speed up or slow down the physicalfunctions. Mindpower is what drives the mighty machine and keeps it generating heat for manyyears. The most erotic organ in your Quarry's body is his or her brain.For details and how-tos, there is no lack of reference books. They have names like How to DriveYour Man Wild in Bed, How to Drive Your Woman Wild in Bed, How to Drive Your Man EvenWilder in Bed, and How to Satisfy a Woman Every Time and Have Her Beg for More. The listgoes on. Such manuals are replete with detailed data for women on how to tickle that spot justbelow the "cute little helmet" to drive him out of his gourd. Men can examine idiotproof charts onwhere to let their fingers do the walking so as to not miss the U-turn that leads to her G-spot.All of this is important stuff—very important stuff. But when it comes to actually making somebodyfall in love with you, it pales in comparison to what I'll call brain fellatio—sucking the dreams, thelongings, and the fantasies out of your

Page 15Quarry, and then creating a lifelong erotic aura that he or she luxuriates in.Gentlemen, far more important for a woman than how many times you can "do it" in a week (or evenin a night) is the sensuality and passion you create in every aspect of your relationship. And thesensations you give her every time you look at her. Ladies, far more important to a man than yourbra-cup size or the curve of your hips, is the size and curve of your sexual attitude and how youdeal with his individual sexuality.No two sexualities are alike, just as no two snowflakes are alike. I will give you techniques touncover your Quarry's unique sexuality and then make love to him or her just the way he or she likesit. In Part Six, we will explore the right kind of sex to make your particular Quarry fall in love withyou.Let us now embark upon our six-part journey, starting with what happens physically when we fall inlove.Page 173The Physical Side of Falling in Love"Why Do My Insides Go All Funny?"Falling in love is both a mental and a physical process. Some of the first techniques you will learnignite your Quarry's physical response to you before his or her brain catches up. We will put lovethrough the brain-scanner and under the x-ray machine to examine what physically happens to yourQuarry when he or she starts to feel that incredible sensation called love."Does Somebody Have to Be Pea-Brained to Fall in Love with Me?"As a matter of fact, yes. Scientists tell us only PEA-brained people fall in love. At the core ofinfatuation, they speculate, is a chemical called phenylethylamine, or PEA. It is a chemical cousin ofamphetamines and gives a similar "kick."PEA comes from secretions through the nervous system and bloodstream that create an emotionalresponse equivalent to a high on drugs. This is the chemical which makes your heart palpitate, yourhands sweat, and your insides go all funny. (It is rumored that PEA can also make you want to ripyour Quarry's clothes off at the first available opportunity.)Page 18Phenylethylamine, scientists say, along with dopamine and norepinephrine, is manufactured in the

body when we first feel the physical sensations of romantic love. It is as close to a natural high as thebody can get. (Cole Porter obviously knew what he was singing about when he wrote "I get a kickout of you.")The bad news is that the kick doesn't last forever, or even for very long. This adds to the quicklymounting scientific evidence that romantic love is relatively short-lived. That's why some peoplebecome "love junkies." The good news is that it does last long enough to kick-start great love affairs.Its average one-and-a-half to three-year duration is plenty of time to have a fantastic fling, get him orher to say "I do," and/or propagate the species.Now, since you can't go around armed with a syringe filled with phenylethylamine, spot yourQuarry, and inject the PEA-filled tube into his or her bloodstream, you do the