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g-spots, and all women can achieve female ejaculation. As mentioned before, all
women’s g-spots are not as easy to find, and when a woman is not sexually excited, it seems “non”
existent (that would be why many physicians do not feel them during medical evaluations). All women
have the paraurethral/skenes glands, and are capable of female ejaculation. While some women have an
easier time at achieving female ejaculation, that is no different than some women having more difficulty
simply having an orgasm. Challenges to achieving orgasms as well as female ejaculation will also be
covered later in this book.

4) It can only be achieved through g-spot orgasms
This is simply not true, but what is true is that g-spot stimulation is useful and sometimes helpful to
achieve female ejaculation. The orgasm during female ejaculation can be clitoral, anal, oral, etc. Also, just
to throw in another point of interest… you don’t have to even have an orgasm to do it!
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5) Gynecologists are educated about this issue and provide women with correct information
Unfortunately, many gynecologists do not know about female
ejaculation, as it has not been thoroughly researched enough.
Remember that medical professionals are only taught traditional
philosophies and theories.
Lisa S. Longhofer
One reason this is not considered "main steam" is due to the fact that women's sexual health has not
been important enough in our society to demand the type of attention that it deserves. This however,
is changing and we are beginning to head on a more enlightened path.
One woman that I interviewed indicated that her gynecologist told her that it was a myth; another said that
only 10% of women could do it, and yet another said that she did not know enough about it to comment.
As you can see even doctors who should know about women's sexual health issues are confused about
this matter.
6) Women can only excrete a drop or two of female ejaculate, and if it is more (especially in the
amounts that some women claim 1-2 cups) then it would be urine.
Research has clearly shown that this ejaculatory liquid is NOT urine. While it is not clear if the fluid
originates from the paraurethral/skenes glands, bladder, or both… it is not urine, nor is it a sign that
anything is physically wrong, rather it is a sign that something is oh so right!

7) Female ejaculation is or becomes urinary incontinence
God only knows how many countless, unnecessary surgeries and counseling sessions were prescribed
to women who experienced female ejaculation. Let me stress again that research has clearly shown that
this ejaculatory liquid is NOT urine.

8) Women who have given birth are capable of this.
Some women discover they are capable of female ejaculation the first time that they masturbate or have
sexual contact with a partner during adolescence so this rules out this myth right away. While some
women don’t begin to ejaculate until after they have child, it is not because of the birth. Rather, my theory
is that it may be more commonly discovered because a woman is more accustomed to the idea of
“bearing down” and pushing, which is part of what aides in it’s occurrence.

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Women who have had children describe the fluid as similar to embryonic fluid or that the sensation is like
the ‘bearing down” type of pushing that they did during vaginal deliveries, however, it is simply a myth to
say that only women who have had children are able to achieve female ejaculation.

The Struggles Of Women & Men Regarding Female Ejaculation~

Women’s Struggles~

Due to the social stigma and confusing information that has been present in our culture, many women
have struggled with various issues around female ejaculation. Listed below are a few of such examples-

Examples of challenges with women who do it~

1) Holding back during sex and refraining from surrendering to her own sexual pleasure.
2) Clenching muscles during sex so as to keep any liquid from leaking.
3) Masturbating alone to experience sexual pleasure and feel the joy of truly releasing through female
ejaculation.
4) Masturbating over a toilet or in a tub to avoid making a mess.
5) Feeling alone, ashamed, confused, humiliated, defective, embarrassed, and sexually abnormal.
6) Having partners who would emotionally, and physically reject them for this behavior.
7) Being accused