Women FAQ | Page 2

sold pheromones work to help attract women?
A: Although pheromones have been scientifically proven to
affect mating actions in various creatures, there's been no
conclusive study done on humans. So, until that happens,
the answer is NO. The most potent attraction tool you can
ever use is your brain.
Q: What is wrong with me?
A: Nothing. Any doubt you have in yourself is insecurity
you are emanating to others. If you don't like yourself, how
do you expect others to like you? If you ever find yourself
thinking "What is wrong with me?", change the thought to
"I can't wait for her to find out what a great guy I am. It
will be a shame for her if she doesn't get the chance"
Q: When is the best time to hug, kiss, or shake hands after meeting a
woman?
A: It depends on the situation, but don't think of it as
"hugging, kissing, or shaking hands." Think of it as
basically physical touching, and do it whenever it could
come off as the most natural thing to do. For example,
when talking to a woman at a bar (which might be crowded
and noisy), lean in and talk very close into her ear while
touching the side of her arm or elbow. This type of
touching is also known as a "kinesthetic approach", kino
for short. You want to a women, soon after meeting her, to
feel comfortable (and possibly aroused) with this type of
touching from you. It displays to her that you are a sexual
being and are not afraid to move in close or make contact.
Don't treat touching like a business affair, treat it like subtle
animalistic human contact. Your hand stroking her hair,
touching her hand, arm around her shoulder, whispering in
her hear and making sure your lips brush against her lobes.
That sort of thing. Obviously not done when first running
into a woman on the street but over time with practice
you'll learn when the right time is.

Q: What does it mean when a woman says "I want a man who knows what
he wants and knows how to get it."?
A: ...when women say "I want a man who knows what he
wants and knows how to get it." she is actually saying: "I
want to be chased. When a man chases me, I feel better
about myself." It also means she's in control to a certain
degree, and although I would say that she THINKS she
wants to be in control, she really doesn't because if the man
knows what he wants, then she's abdicating responsibility
to a degree and subsuming her desires for his.
Q: Why don't women like "nice guys"? Why do they like "bad boys"?
A: Contrary to popular opinion, women do like nice guys.
What they don't like is guys who let women walk all over
them. They don't want a doormat and they don't want a
supplicating fool. Women walk all over nice guys because
nice guys let them do it. Women *want* to be treated like
ladies, with respect and adoration, but they don't know
what to do when they are treated that way. They are simply
not wired to expect this sort of treatment from a man who
could be a potential mate. It's not the type of behaviour that
arouses them. In fact, it has the opposite affect. But that
doesn't mean you need to be a "bad boy" or jerk to get what
you want, it just means that you have to show women that
you cannot be walked all over. It means you DON'T
supplicate yourself with a woman. Think of it like a reward
system. In order for you to do something nice for her, she
MUST first do something nice for you. Not the other way
around. For example, past posts from Nathan on ASF
outlined the following example to explain the reward
system:
You're at a club/bar/whatever and see an attractive woman
sitting/standing alone waiting to pick up her drink or
basically not doing anything. Move in and say "If you buy
me a drink, I'll let you kiss me." Sure, it doesn't work in all
scenarios, and doesn't work with all guys/women or
personality types but if you dissect the problem, you'll
notice a few key things you've portrayed to her in a rather
short comment:
- You're a man who " knows what he wants and knows how
to get it."
- You don't supplicate by asking to buy her a drink. Instead,
you suggest she buys YOU a drink.
- You're telling her that you'll "reward" her, but only if she

provides you with something you want.
- The "reward" is actually something *you* want but it
doesn't come off that way.
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