Women FAQ | Page 3

You're fun and daring.
Once in a while, some woman will actually take you up on
the offer and not only do you turn the game around, but
other women at the club/bar/whetever will notice this
(without knowing what you said to her) and their own
interest will be enhanched, opening up more opportunities.
An average chump, on the other hand, will usually
awkwardly hang around the bar wand wait to find women
who they can offer to buy drinks FOR. Losers. AFCs.
Supplicators. "Nice guys." They're the first to get stepped
on, used, then ignored, and the last to get laid. These guys
will call getting laid "getting lucky" because that's what it
takes for them to sucessfully seduce a woman - luck.
Q: If I'm not supposed to be a "nice guy", do I have to be a jerk?
A: Not in the least. The nice guy / jerk spectrum is too wide
to describe the actual personality you should be displaying
to women. People only think "jerks" because jerks never
supplicate. But you don't have to be a jerk to avoid
supplication and you don't have to be obnoxious to get
what you want.
Q: How can I change my "nice guy" image?
A: What you want to do is learn the types of actions that
might label you an Average Frustrated Chump (AFC).
Then avoid doing those things. An example, don't bring a
woman flowers if you're just asking her to coffee. Don't ask
for her number before conveying personality and gaining
rapport - in fact, don't ask for her number at all directly. Let
her figure that out when you end a conversation and
indicate you have somewhere else to be ("I enjoyed our
conversation. I have to go now - what do you think we need
to do in order to continue this at another time?"). If you've
successfully attracted her, she'll whip out a paper/pen
because she'll WANT to give you her number. Don't
compliment her excessively when first meeting her. Don't
put her on a pedestal. Don't spend money or a lot of time on
a particular woman unless she's already reciprocated your
attempts at attention.