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pretending to look at her watch as you
pass her.m
Her voice
She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to
match yours.
m
She speeds up or slows down her speaking to
match yours.m
She laughs in unison with you.m
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In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses
all of her undivided attention on you.m
Micellaneous:
She mirrors your body language and body
positions.
l
Her skin tone becomes red while being around
you.l
She blows smoke straight out from between her
lips and toward you.l
She leans over and speaks into her friend's ear,
just like in junior high school.l
She is standing with her head cocked slightly at
an angle, one foot behind the other, hips slightly
thrust forward.l
At a party - every once in a while she seems to
appear out of nowhere in your vicinity and if you
move to another spot, soon she appears out of
nowhere again, you catch her glancing in your
general direction (actually, glancing at YOU
dummy!:), she bumps into you… accidentally,
touches you… accidentally etc:)l
When talking to a
girl, these are some
of the more
important signs to
watch for:
Can you keep conversation going with her?
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Does she react well to kino?l
Does she touch you?l
Does she laugh?l
Now I don't have to explain what the answer "yes" to these questions
means, do I:)
From "Sweep women off their feet...": "All these signs usually tell you \
that
the girl is captivated by your charms. But before you get there, chances\
are
that her body language changes as the discussion progresses. Make sure
that you watch her closely and as soon as you get a sign that should be \
an
indication that you are on the right track, keep going in that direction\
. If the
opposite happens, just change the subject and see what happens."
Update . The really gorgeous and beautiful girls however very seldom get
around to displaying the signs of interest described above. They simply
don't have to, as they are used to getting some attention already long b\
efore
that. With such girls you have to be on a lookout for the initial and th\
us
much more subtle signs of interest. One example of this would be a
gorgeous girl simply looking at your face. Obviously people tend to look\
at
what or whom they like to look at. But whereas an average girl first jus\
t
looks at your face and then progresses into the more overt signs of inte\
rest
described above, looking at your face from time to time might be the onl\
y
sign of interest you'll ever get from the most beautiful of girls.
So if you think you're not getting any signs of interest from beautiful \
girls -
you are, but you just can't see them well enough yet.
Update . Don Steele: "Here are signs of interest sent from across the room.
Most are applicable to both sexes. The sequence of the list approximates\
the courtship sequence.
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I'M INTERESTED
Sidelong glance(s)
Looks at you a few
times
Holds your gaze
briefly
Downcast eyes,
then away
Posture changes to
alert
Preens, adjusts
hair, attire
Turns body toward
you
Tilts head
Narrows eyes
slightly
Smiles
Matches your
posture
Eyes sparkle
Licks her lips
Thrusts breasts
DON'T BOTHERME
Never sneaks a
peek
Fleeting eye
contact
Looks away quickly
Looks away, eyes
level
Posture
unchanged
Does no preening
Turns body away
Head remains
vertical
Eyes remain
normal
Neutral, polite face
Posture
unchanged
Normal or dull eyes
Keeps mouth
closed
Sags to
de-emphasize
breasts
In Summary. Frequency of eye contact, the more the better. Amount of tim\
e she, or he, holds your gaze, the longer the better. How she breaks off e\
ye contact, down before away is great! Shine of the eyes, the brighter the
better. Direction of body, toward you, good, away, bad. Overall posture,\
erect and alert are good. Tilt of head, vertical is bad, increased tilt \
is great. Where the drink is held, high in front as a barrier, that's bad. Hand ac\
tivity,
clenched, squeezing or pinching is bad, open, caressing or stroking is g\
reat.
Most of us are slightly afraid as well as somewhat excited in settings w\
here social interaction is expected and required. So, most people do not sit \
or
stand in an open posture. But, during courtship, the more open the other\
person's posture is, the more open that person is to you and your advanc\
es. And, the more open you are, the more likely the other person is to open \
up to you. First Conversation Signals. Men, pay attention to all the ways s\
he communicates during the first few minutes as you talk with her.
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KEEP TALKING
Alert, energetic
Pupils dilated
Gradually opens
posture
Lowers drink
Touches self
gently
Caresses objects
Crosses and
uncrosses legs
Flashes of palm
Crossed legs
steady
Dangles shoe on
toe
Hands never touch
face
Touches you any
reason
Feet firmly on floor
Loosens anything
Leans forward
Steady hands, feetMOVE ON
Tense, restless
Normal or small
pupils
Posture remains
closed
Keeps drink high
Grips or pinches
self
Squeezes, taps
objects
Legs remain
crossed
Back of hand
gestures
Swings crossed
legs
Keeps shoe on
Touches face
Never touches you
Feet on edges or
toes
Tightens anything
Leans away
Tapping, drumming
In social settings, most of us start out in a closed, defensive posture
because we're a bit apprehensive. A closed posture feels