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you talk about upbeat and positive.l
Don't get drunk. This really turns women off and
makes a bad impression. Don't drink at all or limit
your drinking to a couple of drinks.l
Don't try to analyse her problems.l
Don't bitch about your previous girlfriends or
ex-wives on how they mistreated you, dumped
you, cheated on you, took you to the cleaners on
child support, etc.l
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Don't pretend to be funny or humorous. If you
are putting on an act, it will come across to her
as phoney. Just be friendly and smile (but in
appropriate doses, avoid having a grin on your
face ALL THE TIME, guys that are smiling for
hours in a row look terribly insecure and just
plain pathetic).l
Don't focus on your health problems or ailments.l
Don't brag about yourself and your
accomplishments. There are exceptions though,
but try to be careful about them. If you really
have something impressive to talk about, you
can let her in on it, just try to be real casual
about it. On the whole, women are very good at
sniffing out when the male is trying to impress
them by bragging. And if what he is bragging
about is not really that impressive, it's a complete
turn-off. So be careful. Focusing on her and her
interests is a far safer route to take.l
And at all costs, avoid these three themes:
politics, religion and conspiracy theories. These
are guaranteed to nuke your otherwise wonderful
interaction.l
Body Language Reading
Doesn't matter whether she is interested in you, you'll make her interes\
ted
eventually anyway:) But look for these signs to show you whether you're\
already making progress:) It's also fun to look for these signs as a
by-stander, either in everyday situations or for example in a bar - when\
the
guy earnestly believes he is being sooo smooth but the woman he is talki\
ng
to isn't displaying any of the signs presented below, you can't help but\
have
a chuckle about it:)
Her lips:
Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing
with a relaxed face.
m
Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking
her lips or touching of her front teeth.m
She wets her lips, some women use only a
single-lip lick, wetting the upper or lower lip,
while others run the tongue around the entire lip
area.m
She puts her fingernail between her teeth.m
She protrudes her lips and thrust her breasts
forward.m
Her eyes:
She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and
her pupils are dilated.
m
She raises both eyebrows exaggeratedly for a
couple of seconds, this is often combined with a
smile and some eye contact.m
She winks at you while talking to you or winks at
you from a distance.m
While talking to you, she blinks more than usual,
fluttering her eyelashes.m
Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile
indicates interest in you.m
Her hair:
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She pushes her fingers through her hair. This
can be one hand movement or more of a
stroking motion.m
She twirls her hair around her fingers while she
is looking at you.m
She is throwing her hair back off her shoulders.m
Her clothing:
If she is wearing clothes that show her nipples
underneath and you notice they are getting perky
and erect.
m
The hem goes up to expose a little more leg.m
She is fixing, patting or smoothing her outfit to
make herself look better.m
While she is seated:
She moves in time to the music, with her eyes on
you.
m
She starts sitting straight up and her muscles
appear to be firm.m
She is sitting with her legs open.m
She sits with her legs crossed in a manner to
reveal her thigh.m
Her legs are rubbing against each other.m
Her legs are rubbing against the leg of the table.m
Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that
same leg is rocking back and forth towards you.m
Her hands:
She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.
m
While talking to you, she rests an elbow in the
palm of one hand, while holding out her other
hand, palm up.m
She rubs her wrists up and down.m
She sits with one hand touching one of her
breasts.m
She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This
indicates that she's thinking about you and her
relating in some way:)m
She is fondling keys, sliding hands up and down
a glass, playing with toys or other things on the
table.m
She plays with her jewellery, especially with
stroking and pulling motions.m
She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand
while talking to you (in case you already haven't
started kino yourself, dumbass:).m
She is