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Eye contact experiment), some answer, smile and
stop (!) to initiate conversation with you (most probably about how c\
ome you
know her when she doesn't seem to be able to remember you from
anywhere:).
The ones that you have exchanged "Hi"-s with (without ever being
introduced to each other or having actually approached her) are the bes\
t to
use the "We already know each other" tactic with. The next time you meet\
,
just start in the middle, like with an old friend, comment on
something/anything etc, she responds and BOOM - you're acquaintances!
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Talk to Girls Everywhere
If you look and feel great, then you won't have any trouble with this. I\
f you
see a girl, looking in the window of a store, waiting for a bus, sitting\
on a
train, in the next aisle of a movie, shopping in a department store, and\
for
any reason this girl appeals to you, strike up a conversation, start tal\
king to
her about anything that comes to mind. With more experience - #close or
*close right there, in the street. So set yourself a goal of talking to \
girls at the
supermarket, laundromat, at a concert, while standing in line at the mov\
ie,
sitting at the bar, on the bus, standing in the street, in the elevator,\
just
anywhere and everywhere.
Update. Taken from "Seep women off their feet...": "The most important
thing for you is to talk to women everywhere, about anything until they \
no
longer intimidate you. When talking to women no longer intimidates you,
something special will happen. You will find yourself having non-threate\
ning
conversations with beautiful women all the time, and better yet, those
conversations will naturally turn into seduction mode even without a
conscious effort on your part. And once you stop thinking about seductio\
n,
you will find yourself just doing it. You will begin to see the change i\
n
women's behavior towards you."
How to Initiate a Conversation
The following comes in handy, if truly NOTHING comes to mind after havin\
g
applied the 3s rule. It is of course more recommended, that you think th\
is all
through before having approached, just try to limit your thinking to…\
preferably no more than 3 seconds:) No, I'm not an evangelist, its just\
that
the more you wait, the bigger chances there are that she'll leave, someo\
ne
else will join her for a conversation, you start sweating and eventually\
chicken out, circumstances change etc. ASF:
Ask some kind of OPEN ENDED approach
question (it will normally begin with the word
'what').
1.
Have at least one other OPEN ENDED follow up
question, preferably more than one, to defend
you against stalling.
2.
By the time you've reached this stage. providing
your questions were interesting enough, you are
"in conversation"
3.
Before point 1) above, you are a stranger & the woman is wary of you. A\
t
point 2) she's still wary, but talking. By the time you've hit point 3)\
- and it
doesn't matter if it's one woman or a group - she/they have more or less\
accepted you and seem to drop their barriers a lot. All in a couple of
minutes.
To continue. If the HB is a talker, paraphrase her and ask intelligent
questions. Then ask some cheeky questions, maybe neg hit & get some of
your own stuff in. If she's a listener, you'd better have something read\
y to
talk about [or you're gonna CRASH and BURN] - a tale or two about your
interesting and humorous exploits (laced with SS of course) that moves\
gently from being innocent into being more and more risqué. Throw in \
negs
if you need."
Talking to Her/ Echoing Her
Girls want to be understood. In order for her to feel understood, you ne\
ed to
listen to what she says, rephrase it and feed it back to her (it helps \
if you
agree with whatever statement she made:). Listen to what she says,
remember it and you can make her feel connected to you and understood
by you even weeks after your conversation by just simply repeating what
she told to you during your conversation:) So make sure a lot of your
communication to her is a subtle echo of what she feeds you. Now this
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strategy is already quite effective on its own but combine it with using\
trance-words and she's gonna levitate right in front of your eyes:)
ASF: "You need to do more than just agree with her...going uh uh won't c\
ut
it. However you also can't just repeat what she said verbatim. You have \
to
take something she's said and paraphrase it and present it as an origina\
l
thought or opinion."
Fluff Talk
Fluff talk is an important part of approaching a girl, especially if you\
plan to
lauch into patterns, which you can't begin the conversation with on thei\
r
own. Fluff talk is also needed, if you plan to continue with eliciting v\
alues -
you must have had at least some sort of a casual conversation with the g\
irl,
for then it would sound only natural for you to have become a little mor\
e
interested in her, to the point of asking all