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powerful than her and don't know their role as a MAN."
Good Traits to Have
According to some PUAs, women
obviously want a man with these most
important traits:
confidence
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humourl
smilel
well groomed / good looksl
ability to create an emotional connection / a
feeling of romancel
In addition to that, being a successful player includes:
being patient
m
being persistentm
being comfortable just going up and talking to a
new womanm
finding opportunities in situations where you
before did not believe there would bem
being sensitive to how she feels/responds and
modifying your approach accordinglym
knowing how to talk to a woman to build more
rapport with herm
knowing how to talk to a woman to make her
start thinking in romantic directionsm
Having mastered all of the above, these will add the final touch:
mirror her physically
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notice her trance words, remember and use
themm
rephrase everything she says and feed it back to
herm
anchor all good feelingsm
don't argue with her, be very understanding,
deeply understanding - this can help create an
immense rapportm
use presuppositions to direct her actionsm
have and keep good eye contact - also helps to
create an immense rapportm
touch herm
and always start with the cutest girl around:)m
ASF: "Remember, chit chatting about clubs and work school is something
she can do with anyone, but someone who can lead her into a state of
arousal or at least romantic interest is hard to come by. You have to se\
t
yourself apart from the other guys by minimising the small talk and aski\
ng
questions which can lead her into a romantic state."
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On Confidence
ASF: "Try approaching every HB you see and say, "Hi. Are you the sort of\
person I should get to know better?" If she says "Yes", then ask "Why?" \
Put
the focus of the conversation on what she has to offer you. Do this in a\
matter of fact way, like you were saying "Hi. Your shoe's untied." In fa\
ct, if
you can't yet muster the boldness to confront HB's, then just tell them \
it
looks like they're about to lose a heel on their shoe and WALK AWAY. Try\
it.
It works." Don't misunderstand the "addressing a girl and then walking a\
way
works" part - it doesn't work for getting to know these girls, it works \
to add to
your experience and feeling natural and good about approaching girls:)
I didn't use "feeling confident" here on purpose, because ideally, you d\
on't
want to feel "confident" - being confident is something you think about \
and
which ultimately reveals that you must be nervous in one way or another
after all. Ideally you feel so good and natural about it that the word
"confidence" never pops up in your mind:) Feeling so good and natural t\
hat
you have no need to think about being confident is actually the ultimate\
confidence - but never think of it in terms of confidence. Forget the te\
rm
"confidence" altogether, just concentrate on feeling good and natural (\
about
approaching, propelling her to new heights of pleasure with your pattern\
s,
having kino etc) and before you know it - "confident" is how you'll be
perceived by women:)
Update. When seeing a girl you'd like to approach, don't even try to "feel
confident". Instead, think: "See that girl? I am the perfect experience \
for
her!". Think of the way she will have goosbumps from the way you'll make\
her feel good, and if you want to, then for just a split-second you can \
remind
yourself of all the ways you could make her cum:) Don't dwell on that
though:) Just go and offer her the experience of a life-time:)
At a Party
After you arrive, you can go with the 3s rule (recommended) or alterna\
tively,
Don Diebel: "Grab some food or a drink and notice what seems to be going\
on socially, what the dynamic seems to be, etc. The people who seem lost\
will be the easiest folk to flirt with. If you want to, you can assume t\
hat
everyone is socially nervous, cut them some slack if things initially se\
em
awkward and look for ways you can make people more comfortable." But
honestly, it's much more fun to storm in with guns blazing using the 3s \
rule:)
Just Say Hi
This is a really simple strategy. If you're consistent and persistent wi\
th this
strategy, this could yield you a lot of beautiful women. It'll take a lo\
ng time
though, but then again, it requires almost no effort on your part:)
A modification of this tactic (which seems to make some more sense) -
just say "Hi" to any girl you like. Yes, any girl and anywhere - the com\
muter,
the street, the airport, the corridor, the cafeteria. Some won't answer \
(maybe
you greeted her too late for her to notice you), some answer, some smil\
e
and answer (see also