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might
have been busy with something (or somebody:). The three seconds start
counting from the moment you have spotted her AND are free to approach.
But when these two conditions are met, you really don't have the time to\
ponder, whether or not SHE noticed that you didn't approach her because
you were either too busy or simply oblivious - the clock is ticking, so \
move it!
ASF: "When approaching these chicks, I used Mystery's 3 second rule
approach (which I rely on heavily) and tried to pick out something abo\
ut
them to comment on. It could be a book, something they are wearing,
questions about something that they MAY (not necessarily DO) have
knowledge on, something we have in common, whatever."
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Look Great Feel Great
To be able to talk to girls everywhere, you need to be prepared, both
physically and emotionally. This means looking your best as often as you\
can, because people do meet in the oddest places, and not dragging past \
or
present personal troubles into a new interaction. You need to feel great\
, and
I don't mean confident (see On confidence), I mean GREAT - and
rapport-building interactions with beautiful girls will happen naturally\
:)

Alpha Male
"The Alpha male - I use this phrase a lot... Here is quick run down of w\
hat it
means to me. If you watch animal shows on PBS or Discovery Channel,
many species have a dominant male who has sex with all the females in th\
e
group, while the other males get none while waiting for him to die or un\
til
they are tough enough to kick his ass and become the alpha male
themselves. Many males never get to be an alpha male (never get laid).\
He's an alpha male. He knows that women and people in general want to be\
with him so he doesn't shy away from conversation and meeting new
people. He doesn't worry what others think about him when he's doing his\
thing. He takes control of a situation with authority. He knows he's fun\
to be
with because he is always having a good time and therefore he _is_ fun t\
o
be with. He knows that if he is in a group of guys and a group of girls,\
he will
be the one the girls choose to be with, and by having this to be the exp\
ected
outcome, it is a self fufilling profecy.
Ok here's, how I did the Alpha/Dominant Male thing.... First I created a\
model of what I thought a Dominant Male should be. Much the same as the
one stated before. Then I used it to change my frame of reference about
myself, ie I stepped into my model of the Dominant Male. I claimed what \
I
knew to be my genetic right. nd I didn't care who knew it. I didn't make\
excuses for it either. I just excepted it as the natural order of things\
. This is
not an outward thing that you do but rather an inward change that radiat\
es
outward in everything you do.
Being the alpha male is all about attitude and projecting the image that\
you
are fun to be with and the woman should want to be with you. Being the
alpha male is self perpetuating. The more you believe you are the alpha
male, the more you become the alpha male.
As for competing with the muscle boys - that's why I changed my model
from seeing myself as the Alpha Male (there can only be one) to a Domi\
nant
Male (there can be more than one, but they're all dominant)."
Update. While the above discussed being the dominant male amongst other
males, the following will explain how to extend a similar attitude to yo\
ur
dealings with the opposite sex. Jason, Clifford's Seduciton newsletter:
"There's an attitude to take with super HB's (and all women really) th\
at is
pure gold. The thought is that "INSTINCTUALLY women KNOW their role."
The key word here is INSTINCTUALLY. What this means is that on an
"instinctual" level women ARE all the same! They get their juices flowin\
g
when they are in the presence of a MAN who is living HIS ROLE. MAN is
the dominant one, NOT woman. And deep down inside women KNOW this.
This has NOTHING to do with being an asshole. This is about being a MAN
who is NOT afraid [which doesn't necessarily only have to mean the usual\
"TARZAN NOT AFRAID!!" macho stuff, but also not being afraid to be
honest, sensitive and caring when the time is right].
You have to be the MAN who has all the sexual power. And when a woman
(no matter how hot) sees and feels the presence of a man whom she
recognizes as the dominant one while SHE isn't, she does what every
woman does - that is SURRENDERS to the more powerful being. And all
that acting like she's hot and knows she's the stuff and all those other\
"head
up in the air" tricks are just a test and a way to weed out all the men \
who are
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