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for making it work. I know you
don't need to be talked into the advantages of timing your cuming better, but
you need to appreciate the incredible benefits that will be available to you when
you master this method.

2.1 The Anatomy of Ejaculation
I think it's a good bet that you're familiar with the overall experience of
ejaculating. Right, you get excited, really turned on, squirt, and then your dick
gets soft. But there's more to it that you need to grasp, so to speak.

I'm talking about the very pleasurable ten-second involuntary muscle
contractions that we call male orgasm. Sometimes they start milder and get
stronger, but once you pass the point of no return with that first spasm,
releasing semen to the outside world is inevitable for most of us. Believe it or
not, you're going to make those involuntary muscle contractions respond to
your power of choice.

We're all aware of the outcome of an explosive orgasm. To be an Orgasm
Master, you need become much more aware of the internal process leading up
to cuming, as well as the anatomy behind it. Then you'll be in a position to
change the sequence of events that lead to squirting. Some of the symptoms
that precede orgasmic contractions that you'll become more sensitive to
include...

 your breathing speeds up to the point of panting,
 your heart rate and blood pressure increase rapidly,

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 your legs and butt tense up,
 your pelvic muscles tighten,
 your devamani (testicles) elevate and draw-up against your body, and
 you become oblivious to the outside world for a little while.

Did you know cuming is really a two-stage process? Emission and expulsion.

Emission Phase:
Your prostate gland, that valuable walnut-sized gland a long-finger-width
inside your rectum, automatically contracts and empties seminal fluid into
your urethra. That's the tube that carries semen and urine through your
genital system and out the head of your penis.

Expulsion Phase:
Rhythmic wavelike soft-muscle contractions propel the semen down your
urethra and out the head of your penis where those little swimmers have a
brief fight for survival and usually lose. These contractions of your pelvic
muscles that cause the actual release of semen are also the main ones that
cause the fantastic pleasure.

Now here's the good news: by strengthening those muscles and heightening
your sensitivity of this whole process, you can avoid the emission phase
altogether and still enjoy the wonderful ecstasy of the expulsion spasms
without the squirting. When I do this, my vajra gets desensitized briefly so I
can pump vigorously again for a while before repeating the whole cycle as many
times as I want.

Amongst we sex professionals, our technical term for this is dry orgasm. Just
kidding, I really don't know what doctors call it. Did you ever experience one?
I actually had a few dry orgasms some years ago before I knew what was
happening. Later, when I was learning Orgasm Mastery, the guy in the next
room bragged he had 60 dry cums in the first three days of our week-long
course. Yes, I hated him at the time. And I wanted to nail his girlfriend too,
but how could I with such a stud in the saddle first? Now I love him because

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he challenged me to learn the same thing. And you can too. By the way,
thanks, Marco.

OK, that's the end of the anatomy lesson. But there's another even better way
to describe what cuming is all about from a Tantric perspective. You build up
sexual tension through more and more arousal until you seemingly have no
other option but to release the sexual energy through ejaculating. In fact, the
Ultimate Ecstatic Solution to mastering dry orgasms and unlimited stamina is
recirculating the energy within your body. If you can spread the excitement all
over, not only does it feel great, but the urge to squirt subsides. This is the real
power and requires using Tantric practice which we'll get to shortly.

2.2 Causes Of Premature Ejaculation
If it bums you out to think about all that goes wrong when you cum too soon,
you might be tempted to skip this section. But don't. Though I'm sure you
know some of them, I'll bet you aren't aware of all of the factors that can cause
too rapid timing of your orgasm. In fact, after a long career of ejaculatory
mastery, some men acquire this condition temporarily because one or more