And many of us males have been programmed to believe
we're only virile if we can last forever and cum many times a night. I do know
guys like that. As for me, I don't choose to be that kind of lover with those kind
of partners. It doesn't work for me and doesn't give me pleasure like the
following program does. Because I know what I like and what works for me,
I'm pickier about who I share pleasure with. Doesn't that sound more like
mastery than being lead around by my little head?
1.4 Book Overview
You realize that I'm not promising a quick fix for a long-term situation, right?
Rather, this book offers a long-term change in how you make love. Let me
briefly warn you what's coming so you'll know what's in store...
Table Of Contents
Chapter 1 - INTRODUCTION: We just about finished the introduction. You're
making progress already.
Chapter 2 - MECHANICS is about the mechanics of orgasms, ejaculation, and
sexual energy. It defines this book's method, RAMPER. The letters stand for
Relax, Awareness, Measure, Pace, Energy circulation, and Ride the wave.
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Chapter 3 - SOLO PREP gives you individual exercises that prepare you for
greater sexual stamina.
Chapter 4 - SOLO MASTERY teaches individual mastery techniques that can
stop you from going past the point of no return.
Chapter 5- PARTNER PREP gives you dual preparation exercises you can do
with a partner to develop the skills for longer lovemaking.
Chapter 6 - LOVEMAKING teaches sexual exercises you do with a partner to
develop greater lovemaking stamina and orgasmic potential.
Chapter 7- TANTRIC MASTERY presents the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution for
total Tantric Orgasm Mastery.
Chapter 8 - FINAL THOUGHTS is the conclusion, including a glossary of terms,
resources, and final advice. Please look here if any terminology confuses you.
Tantric Terms
I prefer to use Tantric terms for our erogenous zones because they have
delightful positive connotations. Some are traditional, some came from our
teacher Margot Anand, and others I made up. They're all in the glossary at the
very end of the book but here are the main ones...
Tantric Word
Body Part Origin
Vajra penis Sanskrit for divine thunderbolt
Shiva lingam an erection The Hindu god Shiva is always erect
Devamani balls, scrotum, Sanskrit for divine gems, jewels, or
& testicles pearls
Rosetta anus, asshole Margot's preferred name
Yoni vagina Ancient Hindu word
Clio clitoris Margot's preferred name
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Your Schedule
Chapters 3 through 7 contain about 50 exercises. It may sound like a lot, but
it's not really that daunting. In places I give you three or four methods to
choose from to learn one skill. Some of the practices you'll do only once. A few
are optional. Many you'll repeat several times until you master the skills
presented. Some, I hope, will become part of your routine, as they have for me.
I'd like to be able to say jump around and do what feels right. But I can't. The
exercises are cumulative, which means later ones build on earlier ones. This
isn't to say you can't blow through some of the stuff that's easy for you very
quickly. Go right ahead, just try everything and see if you've got the knack
first.
I'm asking you now to commit to the long haul. Ideally, this is a 3-month
program. If you practice an hour a day, you might get through it in 2 months.
More likely, you'll practice several times a week and take 4 to 6 months. Can
you arrange that to become an Orgasm Master?
I recommend against just an hour a week. It's not enough to develop the
momentum where your mastery of one skill builds on the previous one. I've
been personally doing this program for about a year and still continue many of
the exercises regularly. So I know the value of what I'm advising.
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Chapter 2: Mechanics
Before we get started with practices that will make you an Orgasm Master, let's
briefly cover a few of the mechanics of the approach you'll learn. Here we'll
review the anatomy of ejaculation, what causes it to happen before you want,
why Tantra is relevant to this assignment, what you'll gain from mastering the
Ultimate Ecstatic Solution, and the formula
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