David Deangelo - Double Your Dating - Advanced Series Notes - Summary | Page 2

laid back decision and go with it. “Should I
call her today or tomorrow?” Call her tomorrow!

How would you act if you knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that she was totally into you, but
you weren’t that interested, and decided to reluctantly give her a chance to hang out with you?
How would you behave?

• Stop trying to impress. If a woman feels attraction then po ssessions don’t matter.

• Always communicate that you are the selector

• Take the attitude that you judge without be ing affected by the judgments of others

• Always be picky and tease her about how she’s screwing up her chances with you

• Talk about situations where you didn’t tolerate the behaviour of someone in your life, so
you ex-communicated them

• Always have other things to do with your life and never wait around to see if a woman
will choose you

• Play the opposite side: “Guys only want me fo r my body” You: “Well, I kinda just want
you for your body too.”

• Pay attention to body language! It acc ounts for 93% of communication. Tonality,
mannerism, speed of movement (even blinking)

• Be a high-novelty seeker. Take risks, try new experiences, etc.

• Keep your COMPOSURE. Take every opportunity to show you can control yourself,
especially on occasions where nothing can happen anyway. Pull back and stop, it builds
anticipation.

• Don’t take testing personally. Have fun with it! Automatic re sistance, comebacks, etc are
FUNNY…don’t take it seriously

Fear of rejection

There are 4 major fears in approach situations:

Embarassment
Rejection
Verbal confrontation
Physical violence

To face a fear, imagine the worst case scenario and then reframe it or LAUGH at it.

Response to rough shutdown: “Excuse me…I don’t know where you’re from. But where I’m
from, MANNERS aren’t optional. And just because your mother didn’t teach you proper
manners, that’s no reason for me to suffer due to your ignorance.”

“Hi! I’m the kissing bandit! You must kiss me before you can pass!”

Hand tensioning

PERSONALITY TYPES

Guy chicks: Like extreme s ports, can kick your ass.

Dingbats: Not too bright, dingy.

Teenie bopper: Late teens but all into the teen scene.

Party girl: Fine as long as you don’t try to get her into any relationship.

Romantic (the lover): KNOW that she’s going to fall in love ve ry deeply with you.

Controller: Type A and very insecure.

Accountant/librarian: Not a lot of social skills, can be tough to relate to.

High Profile Drama Queen: Can be very stressful, makes a big deal out of everything possible.

Large, Ugly, and Proud: self-explanatory

Gold-digger: Will not always show it ri ght away. Can be very manipulative.

Emotional suckerfish: opens up to you emoti onally with all her problems WAYYY too easily.
Can be problematic in a short time.

Natural Hippiechick: Fun but UNWASHED!

Feminazi: Angry at men in general, may take it out on you.

Church girl: Know what you’re in for

“Cool chick”: 1 in 10 women will be cool chick! Someone with her shit together, great sense of
humour, and few issues.

Success-minded people don’t think negatively when negative things start happening all around them. They think “this is the time when success is right around the corner, and whatever
happens, I will get it!”

Go by the rule: If a woman is speaking, she’s testing you! Look at any request a woman makes
as a test. Accept it or deny it ba sed on YOUR criteria, not hers.

If you’re dealing with a woman from a positio n of scarcity, where you have to get THIS
particular girl, you’ve alrea dy lost. You’ve given all you r chips away—you don’t have a
negotiating position.

“Are you single? Because I have a friend that I think would really like you.” Deflects suspicion
attitude from you, and gets your friend a girl!

How to get them to talk to you?

Drop conversational hints to friend as they walk by. “I think that secretly all women do it”


Weeding out:

“Let’s do tea for half an hour. That way if you’re a total freakshow we won’t be together longer
than we have to!” Shows YOU are the selector.

Mentally rehearse first conve rsations with women. Rehearse body language, inner state,
responses to comm on objections, etc