David DeAngelo - Double Your Dating - Sexual Communication Workbook | Page 2

bar and introduces himself to every girl in the entire
place first, then simply walks away.
Another friend insists that you have to make your approach within 3 seconds
of making eye contact with a woman or it's all over.

One night I met a girl and our first interaction was an argument, a real
verbal fight, but 60 to 90 minutes later she was sitting in my lap, rubbing herself all
over me until her friend begged me to ask her for her number because she wasn't
going to leave until I had taken it.
None of these stories make any kind of ‘logical’ sense. They sound like
flukes, they sound counter-intuitive. So what's going on here?
They're Masters Of ‘Sexual Communication’
We all know guys who are unusually good with women. Usually not the
tallest, richest, or most handsome.
But somehow they always wind up with attractive women.
These guys know something most men don't. They literally speak a different
language when dealing with women. I call this language ‘Sexual Communication.’
Sexual communication is another language. It's different from most ‘typical’
communication... but not different like English and Spanish. It's like the difference
between English and Mathematics, or between English and binary computer code.
It has to start immediately... you must set the context right away by using it
right away. If you don't, it won't ‘develop’ over time. The door will slam shut, and
the opportunity will end forever.
The Elusive Obvious
If there were another language being spoken, how could I convince you of it?
If there was but you didn't know about it, then you'd never look for it and never see
it.
Knowing what to look for, observing it, and making patterns. This is how to
learn the language of ‘Sexual Communication.’ Picture the following diagram of two
people communicating with each other:


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We all have a ‘social persona’ we've developed to present to other people.
Think of it as an outer shell which protects us from strangers-who might laugh, put
down, or take advantage of us. Our person a obeys the rules of social etiquette so
that we don't get hurt from revealing ourselves too much. (For those familiar with
Freud, think of the ‘Super-Ego.’')
The ‘inner self’ is the big lump of needs and desires that we come pre-
programmed with: food, shelter, acceptance, and of course, sex. (Freud's ‘Id.’) You
can learn to break through the persona and communicate directly with the core-and
the sexual desires lurking inside.
If you speak this powerful language correctly SHE'LL BECOME SEXUALLY
ATTRACTED WHETHER SHE INTENDED TO OR NOT.
Attraction vs. Affection
Most guys try to CONVINCE a woman to feel attracted to them with
compliments, or gifts, etc., or HOPE that it will happen if they are just ‘nice guys.’
But this can never work.
What they don't understand is the difference between ATTRACTION and
‘affection.’ Attraction isn't a choice, and it happens quickly or not at all. If you wait,
go on dates, etc., affection may develop, but never attraction. Affection brings
friendship, attraction brings passion.
Basically, inner sexuality is protected by the persona unless you
communicate directly through to it. Once you know how, you can make a woman
feel sexual attraction very rapidly this way. No gifts, dinners, or compliments
required.
I believe that men are all born with the ability to communicate on this level
and to trigger sexual attraction inside a wo man. A variety of sources, including our
culture, religion, etc., have buried this natural ability, or never allowed it to
develop... or maybe we just never realized that it was there in the first place.
The goal of this program is to help you understand and develop that naturally
sexually magnetic part of yourself that's always been there.
To explain why I believe in this ability even though it's hidden, let's briefly
look into human biology, sexuality, and evolution.
Sexual Theory, Biology and Evolution
Men and women have evolved fascinating sexual differences over the last
several hundred million years. Though these differences are hidden in our sub-
consciousness, they still greatly affect everything we do.
We produce 500 million sperm but less than 1% is egg fertilizers-the rest are
warrior-sperm designed to fight off other men's sperm!
Why have we developed this competitive system?

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Because even though we think of them as the monogamous sex, WOMEN
CHEAT.
Worldwide, ten percent of people have a different father than they think they
do. In some places it's twice that.
Amazingly, women are biologically encouraged to cheat. A woman's sexual
desire peaks at ovulation, and those in affairs tend to have sex with their lover but
not their legitimate partner at this most fertile time.
Furthermore, women are much more