David DeAngelo - Double Your Dating - Sexual Communication Workbook

Double Your Dating:
Sexual
Communication
Workbook
By David DeAngelo

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© Copyright 2003 David DeAngelo Communications Inc., All Rights Reserved. "Sexual
Communication", "David DeAngelo", "Double Your Dati ng", and the stylized versions of these phrases
are trademarks of David DeAngelo Communications Inc. Not for resale.

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SECTION 1: History, Theory,........................................................................\
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Background........................................................................\
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Some Men Are Amazingly Successful With Women................................................................. 6
They're Masters Of ‘Sexual Communication’........................................................................\
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The Elusive Obvious........................................................................\
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Attraction vs. Affection........................................................................\
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Sexual Theory, Biology and Evolution........................................................................\
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Instinctive Courtship........................................................................\
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The 4-Step Process Of Sexual Communication........................................................................\
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The Power Of Belief........................................................................\
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SECTION 2: Concepts and Rules........................................................................\
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How Women Treat Wusses........................................................................\
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Why Does This Happen?........................................................................\
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Back To The Stages of Sexual Communication....................................................................... 14
Masculine Qualities........................................................................\
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Qualities Of The Sexually Attractive Man........................................................................\
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Women And Testing........................................................................\
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The Fascinating Why........................................................................\
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Passing Women's Tests........................................................................\
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Rules Of Thumb........................................................................\
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Attitudes........................................................................\
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Strategies........................................................................\
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Techniques........................................................................\
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Masculinity Exercises........................................................................\
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SECTION 3: Sparking & Building........................................................................\
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It's All About Emotions........................................................................\
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A Quick Review To Set This Up........................................................................\
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Sexual Tension........................................................................\
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You Must Spark Chemistry First........................................................................\
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Flirting........................................................................\
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Flirt From The Very Start........................................................................\
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Flirting Example........................................................................\
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Practicing........................................................................\
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Non-Verbal Flirting........................................................................\
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Cocky And Funny........................................................................\
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Once Again: ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE..................................................................... 27
It's Cocky BALANCED With Funny........................................................................\
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Why Does C&F Attract Women?........................................................................\
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Low-Risk Example:........................................................................\
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Don't Back Down........................................................................\
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Cocky and Funny Examples........................................................................\
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More Cocky It Funny Ideas To Build Sexual Tension............................................................. 30
Continuing The Conversation........................................................................\
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Other Ideas For First Conversation........................................................................\
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Here's A Paradox:........................................................................\
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Exercises........................................................................\
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SECTION 4: Getting Physical........................................................................\
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Body Language........................................................................\
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Eye Contact........................................................................\
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Voice Tone........................................................................\
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Dashes Of Romantic Spice........................................................................\
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Men Take The Risks........................................................................\
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But YOU Don't Have To........................................................................\
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Anticipation........................................................................\
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Men Usually Create All The Resistance Without Realizing It................................................. 37
Confidence, Certainty, Knowing What Happens...................................................................... 37
Sample Physical Progression........................................................................\
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Resistance and PERSISTENCE! No no no... YES!.................................................................. 39
Summarize and wrap up...........................................................................\
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SECTION 1: History, Theory,
Background
‘Sexual Communication’ unravels the mystery of how to make women feel a
strong sexual attraction for you just through how you communicate with them.
You don't have to be tall, rich, handso me, or young to make women sexually
attracted to you... Because the secrets of ‘Sexual Communication’ alone can make
women feel powerful attraction to you.

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Some Men Are Amazingly Successful With Women
Here are a few bizarre examples from some of my highly successful friends:
Robert dates only extremely beautiful blonde women, but when we run into
one while we're out, he holds his head high and his drink straight up in front of \
him
and just keeps sipping from it, almost arrogantly.
Chris can walk up to any stunningly beautiful girl and say "Hey" in a totally
comfortable way, and in most cases women respond to him within minutes with
teasing and flirting-everywhere he goes, he's always got a date.
Greg hooks up with a women every time he goes out, and has a specific
behavior he uses: once he meets a girl he likes, soon after they start talking he
confidently leads her from one part of the club to another, e.g. from the bar to the
dance-floor. He doesn't ask, he just leads.
Anthony was at a club with his super-attractive, super-personality girlfriend
and she wandered around while we talked. Every few minutes she'd walk back to
our table and put her arms around him or kiss him, but no matter what she did he
wouldn't reorient his upper body towards her. He might turn his head to kiss her,
but otherwise he'd allow HER to meet HIS position.
When Eric reaches sexual tension in conversation or the woman shows some
sign meaning "I can't believe you just said that" he just squints at her and says
"yeah" in a calm, satisfied tone.
David blatantly checks out women's bodi es, and if they comment on it, just
says "Hold on, I'm not finished"
Terry, dances with one woman, then another, then another... and pays no
attention to any of them afterwards-until the women eventually make their way to
him, standing around and trying to catch his attention.
Rick dates super-hot bisexual women only-frequently and easily, and asks
new women he meets if they're bisexual within the first 5 minutes.
Asked for an opinion of a very sexy dre ss by an attractive girl trying on
clothes, Simon responded casually "Do you have anything else?"
Rick intensely busts women's balls mercilessly wherever he goes, even the
hottest stripper in a club-standing naked before him-gets made fun of, and
somehow always has them kissing him in minutes, and they often just go home
with him.
Craig, walks through the