David DeAngelo - Double Your Dating - Lover and Provider Personalities | Page 2

to get thrills. Their appeal is much the same as the Bad Boy,
except that these guys don't usually wind up beating their women. Women
like to be around them because they drive fast, go interesting places, and
generally have a sense of 'adventure' about everything they do.
They have the attitude of "What adventure is waiting around the next
corner" - even if they're just going out to dinner. They have a colorful way of
slightly exaggerating every story and emphasizing the adventurous points.
Adventurers are like Bad Boys in that they like fast toys and fast
women. Women are attracted to them because they are a kick to be around
- and they often have more than one woman at a time (and I mean this both
ways!) And women totally accept this from them. Women usually understand
on an unconscious level that this is the type of guy that loves more than one
woman.
They're also damn fun. I have a couple of Adventurer buddies, and
they're always talking about how much fun everything is, and the fun they're
going to have tonight and tomorrow. They have extreme optimism, which
women LOVE.
Again, Adventurers are usually in control in relationships, and can never
be tamed. A curious point: most of the Adventurers that I know cheat on
their girlfriends or spouses. Hugh Hefner is an 'Adventurer' personality.
The Seducer (sex) Someone who is sensual and sexy and makes her feel
sexy.

Seducers are all about women. They understand women completely. As
a matter of fact, I sometimes think that maybe they were women in past
lives or something.
I have to read, struggle, and work to understand women. Seducers
seem to have a natural way with them. To most men, a Seducer seems
bizarre, and even slightly homosexual. They do things that are pretty far
out.
Watch the movie 'Don Juan DeMarco' with Johnny Depp. This movie is
the epitome of the Seducer. Don Juan can only see the world through his
romantic perspective, which is magnetic to women. Seducers are usually
submissive, as they are constantly pleasing the woman, and paying careful
attention to her needs.
The flip side is that as soon as they have gotten what they want from a
woman (sex), they're gone. Sure, they may come back for romantic
evenings of sex, but they are not often around for the long term.
The Artist (Musician, Poet) (emotion) Someone who moves her emotions
and is enigmatic and complex.
Why is Barry White so famous for swooning the chicks?
Why do women love guys like Kurt Kobain and other equally twisted,
introverted guys?
I believe that the answer lies inside the psyche of women. Women like
to have challenges, and they like to help people. The Artist personality is
both complex and in need of help and understanding.
Most Artists see the world much differently than other people. They look
at tree and see a giant feather duster, or they see a color and can taste it. If
you think I'm kidding, I'm not. I've spent years studying psychology, and
there are some people that have their senses and perceptions combined and
linked in unusual ways.
Women can usually understand the Artist's expressions better than
other men can. And they are usually very attracted to these personalities for
this very reason. The Artist needs someone to understand them, and there's
always a woman who needs someone to be understood.
Most Artists are not in control of the woman in their lives, because
they're not in control of THEMSELVES. They are usually disorganized, and
completely unaware of time, etc. If you want to become an Artist, also work

on the other areas of your life to stay in balance. Unfortunately, most Artists
don't have very healthy personalities.
Provider Personalities
The Successful Guy (means) Someone who provides a great lifestyle
and stability.
The successful guy brings money and stability to the table. Most women
are trying to find one of these guys to marry them.
The way to demonstrate that you're a Successful Guy is to drive a nice
car, live in a nice house, take her to nice dinners, and buy her gifts. Any
Doctor, Lawyer or Stock Broker fits this ideal.
Usually, these guys are dominant in the relationship. They've worked
hard to climb the ladder of success, and they use these leadership skills in
their relationship (and even parenting).
Women love them because they represent the ultimate goal of most
women: Stability. Most wives would rather have a stable $3,000.00 a
month income than have an unpredictable income of $50,000.00 a year -
spread out over 12 months with no guarantee of when in the year they'll get
it.
So Mr. Successful Guy gives them that 'Security Blanket.' I personally
think that Successful Guys are the ones who most likely use prostitutes the
most in America. This is just a guess, but my experience tells me that it's
probably accurate.
If you're successful, then this one is easy. If you're not, then you might
want to think about learning some marketable skills.
Here's a warning: Most men try to act like they're successful when they
first meet a woman. They show off by buying drinks or dinner, etc. This
immediately causes a woman to go