David DeAngelo - Double Your Dating - Lover and Provider Personalities

The Lover And Provider Personalities
The Eight Personality Types Of Men Who Are Successful
With Women
After studying women, relationships, evolution, and psychology for the
last several years, I've come across some startling information.
I now believe that women have two kinds of 'mental programs' when it
comes to men. And when I say the word 'programs' I mean it. Specifically, I
mean that they are programmed from birth by their genes, as well as by
society to respond UNCONSCIOUSLY to two different types of men that fit
their mental pictures.
In psychology, the term 'archetype' is used to describe a mental
structure that operates on an unconscious level. I'm going to use the term
'personality types' here to describe this concept.
In a nutshell:
· I believe that women respond AUTOMATICALLY to certain men, and
that most of this response is based on the man's personality,
communication, achievements, etc. - not his looks (don't get me
wrong. Looks are important. But they're not nearly as important in
the long run as personality).
· Women are usually not consciously aware of why they react to these
Personality Types.
· These personalities can be divided into two basic groups: The Lover
and The Provider.
· Women respond to Lover personalities by having sex with them
immediately.
· Women respond to Provider personalities by withholding sex in order
to make the man prove that he will stay loyal for the long run.
· There are also several 'unsuccessful' personality types. By
unsuccessful, I mean that these types are not attractive to most
women. (If you're one of these, don't take it personally. Try
something different. I did.)

These are the two mental roads - Lover (short term) or Provider (long
term). If you get on one road, it's hard to get off. So choose wisely.
For each of the two successful Personality Types, there are four
variations. These are created by combining the factors of 'Dominant vs.
Submissive' with the basic personalities. This brings the total to eight sub-
types that are successful with women.
Here's a little chart that shows the personality types. There are two
personality types in each box. For instance, the 'Bad Boy' and the
'Adventurer' are in one box, but they are separate personalities.
LoverProvider
Self OrientedHer Oriented
Seduces WomenCourts A Woman
Dominant'Bad Boy''Successful Guy'
(He controls)'Adventurer''Daddy'
Submissive'Seducer''Regular Guy'
(She controls)'Artist''Ass Kisser'
And here's a short description of the eight personalities with the appeals that
they have to women:
Lover Personalities:
· Bad Boy (danger) Someone who's dangerous and thrilling to be around.
· Adventurer (fun) Someone who's fun and exciting to be around.
· Seducer (sex) Someone who is sensual and sexy and makes her feel
sexy.
· Artist (Musician, Poet) (emotion) Someone who moves her emotions and
is enigmatic and complex.
Provider Personalities:

· Successful Guy (means) Someone who provides a great lifestyle and
stability.
· Daddy (control) Someone who tells her what to do and controls her.
· Regular Guy (loyalty) Someone who is down to earth, loyal and stable.
· Ass Kissing Guy (her boy) Someone who gives her whatever she wants.
Most of the women in this world will respond to ALL of these
personalities to one extent or another.
Now, if you read what other authors say about how to be successful
with women, they will usually teach you only what works for THEM. I'm
guilty of this very thing in my book. I try to give a broader perspective on
the topic, because I believe that even though something doesn't work for ME
doesn't mean that it doesn't work!
So here's a short outline of each personality type. As you read, think
about which one you most closely resemble, and make it your goal to
become more like the ideal each day.
Lover Personalities
The Bad Boy (danger) Someone who's dangerous and thrilling to be
around.
Bad boys are everything from gangsters to bikers to some rock and roll
musicians. These guys are usually tough, dress tough, and act tough as
often as possible. They drink, smoke, get tattoos, and generally demonstrate
in every way possible that they're from the wrong side of the tracks, and
your mother would not approve.
Examples: Tommy Lee, Mickey Rourke, any guy on a Harley, and
Sammy The Bull.
Why do women love them? Danger Will Robinson! There is an addictive
emotional rush being around a guy that could literally do ANYTHING. A lot of
these guys wind up beating their model girlfriends and spending time in jail.
Later, the woman says "He made a mistake, and I love him..."
Amazing. These guys almost always control their women. Anyway, I
wouldn't recommend being the extreme version of this one. You can get a

tattoo and buy a Harley and act all bad, but it's really not making to you a
better person to become a criminal.
I have to mention that this personality type is the one that women are
most MAGNETICALLY attracted to. Again, this is because of the addictive
rush that comes from being around them.
The Adventurer (fun) Someone who's fun and exciting to be around.
The Adventurer is constantly looking for the next fun experience.
Adventurers love to go surfing, skiing, racing, bungee-jumping, and
skydiving. Think Indiana Jones and James Bond.
They are fearless. Instead of being bad to get thrills, they usually like to
do crazy things