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if it’s sexually frustrating, you’ll leave. Then perhaps see her for an hour or so the next
day, to see if she’s changed her mind in your absence. If she hasn’t, get away from her again.
You must also decide what your demeanor is going to be like with her. It actually can be
empowering to go into an experience like this, if you are clear in your own mind that you are
willing to walk and that you aren’t going to hang around in a constant state of desire with this
woman. If she really won’t be sexual, you can keep a good humor and say, “Wow, that’s too bad,
but I know it would be disrespectful to myself to hang around with you as a friend, being as
attracted to you as I am. I guess I’ll have to leave.” Then go. You’re attitude should be that it’s
too bad that it didn’t work out, not that you are angry or upset.
If this is going to work, you absolutely must able to get away from her. You must have a car
or the ability to take a cab. The last thing you want is to be stuck at her house late at night with
her wanting to sleep with you but not be sexual. You must be ableto get away.
You must also have a back-up plan. You musthave somewhere else to stay. You must have
other people to hang out with. Call any friends you have in that city and let them know you are
coming, and that you might be free all weekend. If you’re going to be a “level 5 Man’s Man,”
you must be able to make life work for you, no matter how things go with this girl. This means
you are ready to have a good time if she has sex with you all weekend and you are ready to
have a good time if you ditch her after an hour and never talk to her again as long as you live. If
you don’t have a back-up plan for making this trip fun, even without her, you shouldn’t go. You
must be willing to walk away from her, physically able to get away from her, and full of ideas of
other fun things to do if things with her don’t work out.
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Having said that, there is a good chance it’s just a “why not” problem, and things will be
okay. Take our advice, and if you decide to go, we hope it goes great for you!
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DATING BASICS
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f ter a few weeks of studying the hottest “get laid quick” books, and armed with a few
splashes of pheromone-scented sex cologne, Steve was ready to pick up a woman. He
approached the f irst hot-looking woman in the packed dance club. She seemed like a willing
target and was gorgeous. Within a few seconds of eyeing her, Steve whipped out a “proven to
work every time” pick up line. His f irst attempt was; “Your father must have been a criminal
because he stole all the stars in the skies and put them in your eyes.” The sexy babe responded
with a cold blank stare. Steve shrugged off the rejection and approached the next attractive woman
who caught his eye. This time Steve tried a slightly different approach. He said, “Congratulations!
You’ve been voted the most beautiful girl in this room and the grand prize is a night with me!”
The woman became angry and slapped Steve and then told him to leave her alone.
Are you tired of face slaps, expensive and overrated call girls, lonely nights with your right
hand, and phone sex bills that induce your next heart attack? Unless you are a millionaire, a
rock star, a professional athlete, or just damn lucky, you probably need help. Lots of it.
Learning the art of seduction begins with an ability to create romantic conversations, the
freedom to flirt, conf idence, and a command of language. Shakespeare was lucky enough to
have all four. Casanova and Don Juan were able to capture scads of woman’s hearts and bodies
by the power of their words, body language, romantic skills, and their sheer animal magnetism.
You must examine is how quickly you must move with a woman and how far you need to
push things. We’ve found that when meeting a woman for the f irst time you generally f ind your-
self in one of three situations: you have days or weeks to seduce the woman, you have a few
hours to seduce the woman, or you only have a few minutes to seduce the woman. With each
situation you need to create a different game plan and to take different amounts of risk (It takes
more guts to ask a woman out after only knowing her for two minutes than it is to ask out