Without Embarrassment Womens Needs | Page 4

different personality
types they soon develop a sharp understanding of which kinds of men bore or excite
them after seeing only a few seconds of their presentation. Sensitive egos like ours need
protection from these fast rejecters! But... when you know the right way to act, the
correct things to say, and the critical things to look for... there is just about no chance of
being rejected! When you reach this skill level with women you can then begin to act
with total impunity.
You become invincible like Superman and can enjoy operating in a completely
fearless state! Oh sure there's still a few chunks of kryptonite out there waiting to trip
you up if you're not careful -- but it’s nothing like the mountain of boulders that currently
stands between yourself and a fulfilling social life. The only time you may be likely to
encounter those deadly kryptonite land mines is when you get so overconfident and
arrogant with your new found seduction powers that you venture outside the system and
try to force a play when there isn't one to be made.
But hell, isn't that an incredible "problem" to have, considering where you are
presently... lost in the doldrums of self-rejection and self-imposed isolation? Let’s get
started.
Mike Pilinski
June 2002
v

(Chap 1 -- Pg. 1)
...Stop
...Stop...Stop ...Stop Trying to Get Lucky,
Trying to Get Lucky, Trying to Get Lucky, Trying to Get Lucky,
Get
GetGet Get Informed !
Informed ! Informed ! Informed !
Iadmit it... I plagiarized that opening sub-title from the radio promo of some
gambling outfit that advocates its “stone-cold-lock” football handicapping service with
this cute little moto. Stop trying to get lucky... get informed. I liked it because it
pretty much describes the approach that men have been taking with women since we
were no longer allowed to club them over the head or buy them from their fathers for
two pigs and a bale of grain. Getting lucky. The whole notion of “getting lucky” sums
up what little control most men have over the course of events when it comes to the
game of seduction. Try some desperate gambit, roll the dice, and see if it works. And
if you do actually “get lucky”, it’s altogether unclear just what the hell you did that was
so wonderful... therefore you can’t repeat it! Next time you try the exact same
approach, you get rejected flat out.
Oh, I get it... I guess this time you were “unlucky”.
Well, forget all that bullshit. Without Embarrassment is going to give you the
techniques, knowledge and confidence that you need to overcome your life-damaging
fear of rejection. You will learn some of the classiest methods imaginable to influence
and seduce the kind of great looking girls that you’ve always fantasized about having.
It will do this by teaching you precisely how to act – in both look, attitude and moves
– like a High Status, Dominant Male.
Dominant male? Absolutely. You will soon come to appreciate how this type of

Without Embarrassment
Is Your Ego Roadkill Yet?
(Chap 1 -- Pg. 2)
behavior is what women truly want to see in a man who has romantic desires on them.
Trained by biology and social convention to ruthlessly reject men who are
perceived as occupying a low rung on the Male Dominance Scale, women control a
contest where they set all the rules and understand with fine precision exactly how the
game of seduction should be played. Any man who can hold his own in this highly
charged arena of combat will have captured her interest regardless of what he may lack
in classically handsome physical attributes. Seduction is a game requiring masterful
wits and an effortless sense of timing. You must learn to wield powerful psychological
weapons with the delicacy of skating across the fragile surface of a soap bubble. One
misstep, one clumsy comment, one impatient forced play and – pop – the chance for a
successful seduction vanishes and is lost forever (at least with that particular woman).
Getting 90% of the way there is a total fuck up. You need to have a better
edge than that. Now you have one.
...BloodSport
...BloodSport...BloodSport ...BloodSport -- Approaching and
-- Approaching and -- Approaching and -- Approaching and
Seducing
SeducingSeducing Seducing Women
Women Women Women
B loodSport? Are you telling me that trying to meet and seduce women really
all that dire? Isn’t the grand game of wooing women supposed to be a light-hearted
adventure taken on with playful humor and an air of restless good spirit?
Sure... but only if you don’t suffer from Severe Rejection Hyper-Sensitivity like
I used to. SRHS is a life-damaging psychological millstone around your neck which I

Without Embarrassment
Is Your Ego Roadkill Yet?
(Chap 1 -- Pg. 3)
had the sheer luck to discover has a very concrete underpinning in the way that you were
treated by your primary caretakers (parents) as an adolescent. I’ll discuss this problem in
depth in Chapter 4 when I