Without Embarrassment Womens Needs

No More Mr. Nice Guy...
Stop being “friends” with women and
Start Getting Laid!
Establish your Sexual Interest in her
as a Man
... immediately and
“Without Embarrassment”...
Remove the Shame Blocks that prevent
you from developing intimate
connections with women...
Trigger genetic “buttons” that
force her to willingly respond
to your advances...
...Automatically!
Destroy your pathological
Fear of Rejection... Forever!
by Michael Pilinski

by Michael Pilinski
Copyright © 2002 Kipling Kat Publishing Company
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First Electronic Printing -- September, 2002
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Dedicated to all the girls I've ever loved
(since first grade...)
Ellen, Jean, Mary Ellen, Lorene, Cindy, Mary,
Pamela, Susie, Joan, Shannon, Shari,
and Kimberly
Though you all probably think otherwise,
I'll never forget any of you.

Table of Contents
Introductioni - v
Chap 1 -- Is Your Ego Roadkill Yet?
Stop Trying to Get Lucky... Get Informed 1
BloodSport -- Approaching and Seducing Women 2
Romantic Ratings 5
Four Types of Attractiveness / Rejection Sensitivity for Men 7
My Sad and Pathetic Story -- How women piss on Low Status Men 9
F*** Fear!... Becoming Fearless is a Learned Skill 14
Using Your Physical Flaws like a Stun Gun 15
The Female Mating Call -- Respond Properly and You're In 17
Chap 2 -- Seduction: How the Game is Played
The Importance of Establishing Yourself as a Player 21
It's All Subconscious with Her 24
The Nice Guy Blues Explained 26
Nice Guys on Parade 31
Words as Power Tools vs. Pointless Chatter 33
Instant Charisma and Classy Courage 35
How Does Your Blood Smell? 37
Chap 3 -- The Male Dominance Scale Exposed
Are You a 2.5 or a 9.5? 42
High Status (powerful) Males vs. Low Status (weak) Males 45
The Way Women Want Men to Act 52
The Seven Perfect Attributes in Men that Women would Love to See 55
But None of this Works for You... 63

Chap 4 -- Comfortable Wimps, Tough Men
How Toxic Shame keeps you locked inside a Low Status Straitjacket 64
Your Secretly Shamed Affection Needs 71
The Zone of Discomfort 85
Comfortable Friends -- Uncomfortable Lovers 87
Seven Reasons Why You Always end up Friends Instead of Lovers 90
Your Failed Commitment to Suffering the Journey 98
Chap 5 -- Essential Flirting
Seek Adventure, Not Outcome 100
Always have Your Antenna Out 111
In Order to Get Something You Have to Pretend You Don't Want it 111
Your First Words are Always Non-verbal 113
The Rejection-Proof 6 Step Process for First Contact 116
On Rejection Sensitivity 130
Instant Rapport? 132
Make the Incredible Connection... Now! 137
Romance is a Trance 143
Five Minute First Contact Scenario -- In Review 154
Chap 6 -- Closing the Sale
E scalate W hen t h e Tim e is Righ t to R ealize a Success fu l S ed ucti on 166
You Must Disclose Your Sexual Interest in Her Promptly 170
Be the First One to Reach Out and Touch Her 174
S exu al T en sion can N ev er be D en ie d 180
Forget what Teacher Said... Assume Anyway! 182
The Deep Look 186
Sealing the Deal: You Must Deliver a Knockout First Kiss 188
Cruise Control: Now She Takes Over 195
Putting it All Together 197

Chap 7 -- The Big Picture
Y our A bility to D eli ver on H er Fou r Pri m ary E m oti on al Nee ds 204
Make sure that Your Four Primary Emotional Needs are being met by Her217
The "Right One", defined 225
Getting Her Addicted to You 230
Yeah Baybee! ... Your Perfect Pad for Shagging 235
You Evil Bastard, I should have never shown you any of this... 240
Appendix
A) Cayman Magic -- (A fictional pick-up story with annotations) 247
B) The 7 Mega-Rules of Men - Women Relations 282
C) The Dominant Male Test 284
D) Scoring the Dominant Male Test & Interpretation of Results 294

Introduction

A
re you socially withdrawn? Is “nerd” how you would describe yourself? Can
you remember a horrible, mocking, humiliating event in your past that still
haunts you to this day? See it as vividly as when it first happened? (Oh, I can
remember a few of them!) What kind of pain does it take to control you? Are you the
sort of person who's motivated by the idea of seeking reward or pleasure? Or are you all
about avoiding pain and hurt at all costs?
Well here's the Great Wonder of being alive... lurking inside every rotten situation
there exists a seed