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supposed to create\
an
even deeper rapport, but first of all - trying to see when she breathes \
might
seem like you staring at her breasts (and you would NEVER do that, woul\
d
you?:); and secondly - all the concentration required to detect and mat\
ch
your breathing and blinking with hers will take away much-needed attenti\
on
from what she is saying, how is she responding to your patterns, values,\
kino etc, so eventually this could do more harm than good.
As to from where to mirror - the most common situation is when you're
talking to her. But you can also try mirroring from a distance, say in a\
classroom, meeting, night-club or cafeteria, just make sure she has a
chance to subconsciously detect you mirroring her, in other words, she m\
ust
be able to see you (so you can forget about mirroring her while watchin\
g her
take a shower through a peep-hole:).
Kinesthetics
Psychological studies show that casual touching during a friendly
conversation causes people to remember the conversation more fondly afte\
r
the fact.
The combination of kino with social proof is dynamite. Touch one girl an\
d
the other girls seeing this think its normal or even "good" to be touchy\
-feely
with you:). Now you can quite naturally move on to touching those other\
girls and so forth:).
ASF: "It's quite simple - hug them, touch their hand sporadically and in\
A
NON THREATENING WAY, that is, not like the desperate pervert we all
are:) So the idea is, you hide completely the interest you might have A\
ND at
the same time you act really touchy/huggish. The problem is - you have t\
o
start this early in the "friend" relationship, it has to seem natural, o\
r
otherwise she'll wonder "what the fuck is he doing lately?":) Once you'\
ve
developed that kind of flirtatious friendship, it's easy to spawn other \
such
'friendships' with other women: they will see you being close to another\
woman, and I think the key here is that, it probably does not trigger as\
much
jealousy as it makes them (the "new" ones) feel comfortable -- they se\
e
another woman being touched by you in a non-threatening way, and, blam,
social-proof, it becomes a 'proof' to them that it's normal for you to t\
ouch
them in turn... "
ASF: "Ok, I use this all the time now. TOUCH HER!!! It doesn't matter if\
you
just met her. Hold her hand, rub her arm, her elbow her back, her should\
ers,
her hair, her face. TOUCH HER !!!"
ASF:
1. PAY ATTENTION TO HOW SHE RESPONDS TO YOU!!!
2. PAY ATTENTION TO HOW SHE RESPONDS TO YOU!!!
3. One more time: PAY ATTENTION TO HOW SHE RESPONDS TO YOU
!!! If you do this you will be able to better gauge if you have the appr\
opriate
rapport to invite a kiss. If her body seems to respond to the non-sexual\
touching then get gradually more sexual. For women some areas of the
body outside of the primary erogenous zones are intimate: Palms, inside \
the
elbow, ear lobes, cheeks, the hips were the waist meets the hips, betwee\
n
the fingers....
4. Last thing: PAY ATTENTION TO HOW SHE RESPONDS TO YOU!!!
Update. Do the things that lovers do - brush off "something" that's stuck in
her hair, gently stroke her cheek pretending to wipe off an eyelash etc.\
These are the types of things lovers do and by doing them, you will make\
her feel (doesn't even matter if only subconsciously) like you were he\
r lover.
Plus you'll get "innocent" yet pleasurable kino:)
Update . Kino as soon as you meet a girl. Meeting someone for the first
time is an excellent chance for starting kino - shaking hands when
exchanging names is a tradition of many cultures and cultures. But make
sure you hold on to her hand longer than expected, long enough for you t\
o
enjoy it and her to notice, if not you enjoying it but at least you not \
letting go
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as quickly as people usually do.
When meeting girls you already know, shaking hands might seem strange,
so giving some sort of a hug is the way to go. You don't need to fall al\
l over
her to give her a hug (which depending on the situation might even make\
you look like a fool or a pervert or make her embarrassed instead of hav\
ing
her enjoy it too:), a hug can also be putting your arm around her waist\
or
shoulders when standing to her left or right and pulling her closer for \
a
moment, or taking her hand for a moment (but not shaking it), or her e\
lbow,
or arm etc. Daniel, ASF: "KINO on the arm/hand as soon as you say hi to
show her you are a sexual being."
Update. Set the mood of the date from the start. When going on a
date/get-together, establish the mood immediately. You can of course
change the mood from "polite and calm" to "warm and friendly" to "arouse\
d
and sweaty" during the course of the meeting, but why go the hard way, i\
f
you can jump right into "warm and friendly" or beyond in the