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a sensitive dick. Which by the way, I love.

Please believe me that being sensitive is a good thing. Would you rather be
numb and not feel those delicious sensations? No, of course not, you don't
want feel less and thus block your potential for ecstasy. The Ultimate Ecstatic
Solution isn't about feeling less, it's about feeling more. It's about creating
more pleasure and mastering its ups and downs so you can make vajra go on
forever.

This little book is mostly my story about my love relationship with my vajra. I
hope it will spread to your relationship with yours. Plus I'll throw in a little
help from talented friends and an expert here and there so you'll get the whole
story from every angle I've discovered.

In fact, here's one now. My beloved friend, Shama, a wise and juicy female
Tantra coach in Southern California, says "In my work, I've found that men
who prematurely ejaculate are very passionate and have a wonderful intensity
of excitement and feeling. It's just that due to their previous programming,
they've formed a habit that locks them out of any other choices. They're taught
to eat, eliminate, drive a car and program their VCR. But crazily enough,
somehow it has not been okay in our society to teach men about the power and
beauty available to them in their bodies and sexual energy. I teach them how
to begin to understand, listen, monitor and control that aliveness within the
body (their vehicles) to master the use of it in all circumstances, including the
sexual."

Book Objectives
Here's a simple clear statement of what this book is about. It presents...
 both modern and ancient proven secrets of prolonged lovemaking for men,

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 a step by step approach to becoming an Orgasm Master,
 how to have S.E.X. (that's Subtle Energy eXchange),
 a smorgasbord of physical techniques that can stop you from cuming when
you don't want to cum,
 practices that can permanently change your orgasmic response, and (of
course)
 the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution to premature ejaculation.

That last objective may sound like an inflated grandiose promise, but that's
OK. Contrary to what you might have heard from guys who tell you to think
about baseball or your grandmother to keep from squirting, the Ultimate
Ecstatic Solution is about MORE ecstasy, not LESS sensation. That's where
Tantra comes in, the ancient science and practice of sacred sexuality.
Thousands of years ago, ordinary men in India, China, and Tibet mastered
what you'll read here. You can too. You're probably healthier and more
evolved than them, right? It'll just take a little fun practice.

The experts say that sexual response has three stages: excitation, plateau, and
orgasm. Our aim here is simply to lengthen the plateau phase indefinitely.
That's why this book is about Orgasm Mastery, not about control. Control
implies staying under tension, always being careful, and not trusting yourself
to relax. That's the opposite of the direction we're moving here. With this
program you're going to learn how to relax and enjoy sex more. You don't want
to always be on guard, wound tighter than a spring, do you?

Orgasm Mastery
This book is about how to be a master, at choice, to enjoy lots more pleasure
for an extended period of time. Additionally, you're going to learn to have
different "kinds" of orgasms than you're used to, as many as you want for as
long as you choose. Now doesn't that sound like mastery? You're going to
discover (if you don't already know) that ejaculation doesn't always have to
accompany orgasm. That's how those who've learned these techniques have
multiple orgasms, spasm after spasm that seem to go on forever but without
the squirting that for most of us ends the playtime.

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You might have heard that Tantrikas (practitioners adept at Tantra) and other
Eastern gurus give up ejaculation entirely or become celibate. Well, I'm not
going to suggest that you take any vows. As an Orgasm Master, you can
choose to cum or not.

But let me warn you, after some months of extended practice, you may not
want to cum much anymore. It's OK if you're thinking, "no way, I enjoy
shooting my wad too much." I'm not going to argue with that desire since I've
sure been there most of my life. Since you'll be the master, you can choose to
do what gives you the most pleasure. Just let me ask you