Tantra - Basic Fellatio Techniques | Page 2

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pies when you were a kid, and just a fun.You can slide slow or fast,
and take as much penis into your mouth as you like. One neat action
is to slide down as far as you can, and then draw his penis out slowly
while sucking on it, like a peppermint stick.

For a more intense activity, you can slide faster and/or go deeper with
your strokes. And for an even warmer closeness, you can also fondle
and cup his balls in your hand, and add postillioning.

If you and he decide to bring him to orgasm, sliding is a nice way. If
so, he'll probably appreciate stroking as fast and full as you can. Let
me relate a few tips about this.

His experience will get more energetic and intense as he approaches
orgasm. Your sliding will cause the most stimulation if you encircle
your lips firmly around his penis and over the tips of your teeth. This
makes a smooth, snug embrace, and helps avoid nips and
amputations. Move your head up and down as if it were saying "yes,"
from just below the top of the penis to as far down as you like.
Meanwhile, keep all the other parts of your mouth as relaxed as
possible (actual "sucking" is not important here). As you go faster and
deeper, get into a regular rhythm. If things start to get very excited,
you can move from your shoulders and upper back instead of your

neck, so that you're bouncing up and down with your whole upper
body. By using these muscles you give more energy to your strokes
and avoid fatigue better.

If you're wary of gagging, you can wrap one hand around
the bottom half of the penis and slide on the top part. If
so, it's nice to move your hand up and down too, doing it
so that as your lips move up to the fraenum, your hand
moves down to strike against the bone just above the
penis (called the mons pubis) and also because your
hand pulls the skin tight, which increases sensation. In
fact, even if you don't use your hand too much, you can hold it at the
base to pull the skin tight.

If you're really into giving every inch of goodness possible, you can
add simultaneous sideways motions of your head. First, learn to do
the sliding so it comes easily. Then, as you move up and down, rotate
your head from side to side as if saying "no." The two motions need to
be coordinated, so, for example, as you come up, turn your head
from the center to the right, at the top turn your head to the left,
and as you go down, back to the center.

Let me emphasize that the above actions take time to learn. The
best way is by becoming familiar with one activity in an easy, relaxed
way, and adding on from there. Doing a rapid slide may seem strange
and uncomfortable, and if you experience it this way, it's best to take
your time about learning it, and only when you feel very save, that
it's OK with your friend and you to slow down, stop, or whatever.
Remember, none of these activities is any big deal. What counts is
you having a good time. Sometimes when I'm in my spiritual mood, I
get into the feeling of this up-and-down motion on the erect penis.
There's something very basic about it, as if I was sensing a
bottomless glow coming up from below my mind. I believe that each
of us has a genetic memory, a meaning as old and wise as the
universe itself. We're not usually conscious of this, the base pattern
for our life experiences. But the up-and-down on the penis is part of
this pattern, and can trigger in us green-life warmth, as if the universe
were saying, "Yes! This is very mysterious and good. Grow!" Pay
attention and see what comes up