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get a special thrill from
experiencing so directly the blissful effect he has
on his partner, as well as from her vulnerability
and trust.  
Oral sex for men is called fellatio. The
experience of having their penis sucked, licked
and kissed is one that most men find intensely
exciting. In some cases, there may be
psychological barriers to overcome. Some men
fear being bitten during oral sex. The woman
should open her mouth as wide as possible, and
close her lips, but not her teeth, over the penis.
Using all the muscles in the lips and tongue will
mean that the teeth should not come into contact
with the penis at all.
Some women are worried that they may
be choked during fellatio. The way to allay this
fear is to remain in control: you are the one who
should move while your partner lies still, so there
is no possibility of his thrusting deep into your
throat and making you gag. Some women find
the idea of swallowing semen repugnant. Of
course there is no need for you to do this if you
do not wish to, but many women do enjoy having
their partner ejaculate into their mouth.
Work your way down your partner's body,
beginning with kissing his face and mouth and
progressing to his genitals. Be very gentle, as
they are highly sensitive to pain. There are many
ways of stimulating the penis with your lips and
tongue. You can lick all along the shaft with a
delicate tongue, then use more pressure and
press your open lips as well as your tongue
against it as you rub them up and down towards
the head. You can lick and kiss the frenulum - the
sensitive place where the glans joins the shaft on
the underside, which will be facing towards you if
the man is lying on his back with an erection. You
can take the head of the penis in your mouth and
suck it, tickling it at the same time with your
tongue, and you can move your lips as far down
the shaft as is comfortable. Then move up and
down, sucking and pressing with your lips and
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tongue.
The '69' position is so called because the
figures resemble a couple giving each other oral
sex. While many couples find this a good way of
arousing each other, others find it difficult to
concentrate on giving and receiving such intense
pleasure at the same time. If you are about to
come in this position, it is best to break off from
pleasuring your partner to avoid inadvertently
biting him or her. Use your fingers to indicate to
your partner what is happening and let yourself
go in orgasm.
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Masturbation
Masturbation
is a natural and healthy
method of sexual release engaged in by most people
of both sexes. It is also a good way of learning one's
own sexual response. Women who can bring
themselves to orgasm by masturbating are more likely
to have orgasms with their partners, and men who
can masturbate for 15-20 minutes without ejaculating
are less likely to suffer from problems of premature
ejaculation during intercourse. Stimulating your
partner's genitals is also called masturbation, and is
an important part of lovemaking.
The external
female genitals
are called the vulva. Pubic hair
grows on the labia major, and
inside these outer vaginal lips
are the labia minor, which are
pinker and moister. If the sight of
your own genitals is not familiar
to you, examine them in a hand
mirror while you relax after a bath or shower. The
clitoris is situated where the labia minor join at the top.
It is a pink knob about the size of a dried pea, and is
highly sensitive. The clitoris is protected by a hood,
which retracts during sexual arousal. Below the clitoris
is the tiny opening of the urethra, through which urine
passes, and below that is the opening to the vagina.
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When you start to
masturbate,
make sure you have plenty
of time during which you won't be interrupted. Go
somewhere where it is quiet, completely private, and
warm. Some women like to lie on their back, some on
their front; some like their legs pressed tightly
together, others like them spread wide apart, or
propped up above the body. Use a lubricant and
stroke yourself gently, with your fingers or an object
such as a vibrator, varying your movements from time
to time to find out where and how you like to be
stimulated.
Many
women
find the clitoris
too sensitive