then boy! either she's real easy or you're
real good:), but more probably she's gonna offer a phone number so the \
two of you can set up a meeting later over the phone.
Notice, that you didn't ASK for her phone number, it was her idea to giv\
e it to you, thus framing you in her mind very differently
from when you would have asked for the number. The first instance create\
s in her mind a picture of "I gave him my number…
which must mean I like him" while the second creates an opposite picture\
of "He asked for my number…. which must mean he
likes me… yawn, yeah he's nice, next!":)
Example 2
You: "So..what steps would we have to take in order to make sure we can \
talk again?" If a change of venue is highly unlikely, this
one is a more direct wake-up call for her to usher you her number.
Example 3
You: "I have an intuition… and I don't know if you can imagine this a\
s I describe it… that when we get a chance to talk without
time pressures or interruptions… we'll really enjoy each other's comp\
any… and I'm wondering if there's a number where you feel
comfortable having me call you?"
Example 4
"Let's do xxx together. I'll call you"
"But you don't have my number!"
"Oh that's right! (pull out a pen)"
Example 5
An example of Mystery's #close (the girl is already quite eager though \
and the #close is a formality, but beautifully handled
nevertheless:): "Well, when we go blading you have to wear your gear ca\
use I love the hills." She nods so I add, "for this to
happen you have to ask me a question." She blurts out, "can I have your \
#?" I say, "wow you come on strong! Are you always this
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bold?" She says, "yes" I act "impressed" and say, "how bout we trade #s \
... fair?".
Update. A variation of the above. Mystery, Clifford's Seduction Newsletter:
You: "Well... now that we've set up a meeting, there's a question you need t\
o ask me."
Girl: "What?"
You: "Oh come on!"
Girl: "What's your phone number?"
Update. Example 6
(Taken from "Sweep women off their feet...":) "Just abruptly look at y\
our watch if you're wearing one, or if you don't have one
ask for the time right in the middle of your conversation. Once you get \
the time make up an excuse that you have to go right away.
Be polite and tell her how much you enjoyed this conversation and that i\
t was your pleasure to meet someone like her and walk
away.
Just as she will be all confused about what is going on, wondering if sh\
e said something to offend you or if perhaps you don't like
her because you didn't ask her out or you didn't even ask for her phone \
number, come back as though you forgot something and
say:
"You know what? If we ever wanted to do this again, and laugh and have a\
good time together we don't even know how to get a
hold of each other. And that would be such a tragedy. It would be a defi\
nite loss for me, but perhaps if you think about it and
realize how much you enjoy having intriguing conversations, laughing and\
having a good time, you will know that it would be a
loss for you too. So, what do you figure we should do about it?"
The answer is obvious. But if she doesn't offer you her phone number rig\
ht now while you still maintain this sense of urgency as
you have to leave, ask her for it directly."
Update. Example 7
If however you don't have the time / can't come up with anything to cons\
truct a situation for her to offer you her number, or you
have offered all sorts of opportunities ("So what should we do in order\
for us to be able to continue this discussion some other
time?" "Um... I dunno?") but she just doesn't take the hint - ask for h\
er number directly.
l "I don't mean to be direct, but can I have your phone number."
l "You can't leave...You haven't given me your phone number yet!"
l "Give me your number", then hand a pen and a notebook (that simple?:).\
Update. Example 8
Johnny Shack (http://showgirls.com.au): "You should say "I think you'r\
e a great girl and I think we would get along really well.
Now if I didn't come and talk with you, which may seem a bit cocky, we w\
ould never get to know each other, so the best thing for
me to do was to come and
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