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Tantric Sex Section
“Being fully present in the moment creates not only
ecstatic sex but spiritual transcendence.”
— Jeffre TallTrees & Orv. Fry, Intimacy: A Green Light
For Red Hot Sex & A Lifetime Of Loving
Tantra, Sex, & Energy
Tantrikas celebrate sexuality as the supreme divine gift.
Though Tantra is not directly about sexual techniques, Tantrikas become better
lovers through consciousness, communication, and practice. We release the issues in
our tissues that have blocked our enjoyment. As a result, our sensations and erections
become stronger, we make love longer, and we experience bigger and more prolonged
orgasms.
Typical modern lovemaking starts with a quick build up and ends with an equally
quick release of sexual tension. Not so in Tantra. Tantric Sex uses the same body parts
and physical actions, but unfolds much differently than the average quickie hurtling
downhill towards a sudden explosion.
In Tantra, we define S.E.X. as Subtle Energy eXchange. Tantric S.E.X. means any
touching or moving together that connects lovers’ inner vibrations. The Sacred Gate (G-
Spot) is one of those highly energetic erogenous zones that strongly activates the flow of
sexual energy.
In Tantric S.E.X., rushing towards tension release and pushing to climax gets re-
placed with continuous streaming vibrations of ecstatic energy. When we enter the
altered state of consciousness that comes with orgasm after orgasm, we simply float
upon a cloud of bliss together.
Sometimes Tantric lovers move so slowly, stopping frequently to settle deeply into
the rising tide of pleasure, stretching the experience out as long as possible. Our bodies
become ecstatic when they truly get in tune with the spirit.
That’s why we say Tantric Sex is more meditation than athletics.
Drop Your Goals, They’ll Look After Themselves
There’s no goal in Tantric Sex, only the present moment of perfect and harmonious
union. Loveplay in Tantra is all about...

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•Building, containing, and circulating sexual energy, not losing it.
•Letting the energy unfold and expand, not trying to make something happen.
•Feeling pleasure intensely for long periods of time, nothing more and nothing
less.
We follow no agenda, set pattern, or programmed stages of foreplay and penetration.
We don’t rush through the preliminaries to get to the main act. We don’t judge success
in the sack by making ourselves or our partner climax. Since we have no goal of giving or
receiving orgasm, anything may happen as the mood strikes the lovers.
All too often having goal expectations just creates frustration which you carry into
later encounters. Soon, simple enjoyment gets bogged down with all these mental stan-
dards and judgments, future agendas and plans.
Performance expectations, pressure, and anxiety take you out of your body in the
moment. By ignoring your own sensory input right now, you severely limit your ability
to run sexual energy throughout your body and experience waves of orgasmic bliss.
Get Out Of Your Head & Into Your Body
In
Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery, Somraj writes...
“Getting out of your head means letting go of so many
worries that normally accompany sex even with long-time
partners. So heighten your senses, feel your feelings, en-
joy your pleasure with no agenda, and you’ll gradually
learn to stay out of your head and into your body.”
In contrast, the sexual practice of Tantra guides you to shift from orgasm — where you
expect a defined ending - to continuously experiencing sexual pleasure energy for as
long as you choose in any way that strikes your fancy in the moment.
We might look into each other’s eyes at great length, exchange endearments we call
sweet everythings, and quiver with ecstasy from the subtlest kiss or caress. We might
flow from sensual touch to jewel union (intercourse) to oral sex to G-Spot massage to
who knows what and back again.
Bringing this closer to home, guys, we applaud your desire to have incredible Sacred
Gate orgasms from the practices in this ebook. But to do that, you’ll need to drop your
goal fixation in any specific practice session or lovemaking encounter. Let ecstasy be
your long-term intention, but let whatever happens in any moment happen of its own
accord.
Like a wet noodle or soft vajra, you can’t push Tantric Orgasmic uphill by force.
You Don’t Get What You Don’t Ask For
Tantra teaches that whether you’re female or male, you’re 100% responsible for your
own turn-on and your own orgasms. This makes sex a partnership of two powerful
equals. It takes two to do the horizontal tango.

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As a marriage counselor for many many years, Jeffre learned that the single biggest
reason women get turned off to sex (after religion) is their fear of telling their men the
truth about their sexual responses, desires, and wants. Guys, don’t make this mistake
with male G-Spot play.
If you want to deepen and supercharge your sex life, communication must begin at
the beginning. That means telling your partner what turns you on and what doesn’t.
As well, going deeper with communication all throughout your loveplay helps tre-
mendously to create intimacy. When receiving sexual pleasure, you need to explain what
you desire, what you feel, and how you’re reacting.
We understand