of guy who is brave enough to stop any beautiful
women on the street and pick up a conversation with her at ease?
That’s called confidence (or being “out-of-your-mind”, whatever you
call it).
Many men talk unsatisfactorily. They often say things they don’t mean
to and frequently regret about what they should have said and could
not.
You see, making women laugh is not just about knowing the
techniques and applying them. It’s also about an inner game you play
with yourself constantly.
And that’s why a portion of this book is devoted to the topic of
becoming a good conservationist in general. Wouldn’t you want that—
to be able to talk to anyone comfortably and make everyone like you?
Making women laugh at your will requires hard work and practice. I
once asked a friend of mine who is popular among women why he’s so
good at making them laugh, and he replied, “Experience.” Being an
inquisitive guy, I then asked where he got all his experience from. He
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women.”
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Three Simple Steps to Being Funny
One - Open Your Mind and Absorb
First of all I ask you to maintain an open mind and give yourself a
chance to absorb everything taught in this book which is the
culmination of my years of experience and research.
Take your time to digest the materials presented in this book.
Mastering just 1 or 2 techniques will bring you a great deal of
improvement, but attempting to apply them all at once won’t be as
effective and beneficial. Be patient.
I suggest you read this book at least 3 times while putting at least
60% of the techniques to use in your own life. While reading, reflect
on what you did right in the past—did you stumble across it on luck?
What could you have done but never did in the past? How would you
handle it again if you were given a second chance?
Imagine some real-life situations and do some role playing—either
with yourself or with a friend (no, it’s not silly)—or you can go straight
to the world and get instant feedbacks.
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Two - Shift in Mentality
You will never become a funny guy until you see yourself as
one. And whether you see yourself as a funny guy depends a lot on
what you say to yourself.
An average human being talks to himself or herself about 800 times a
day, including those “silent words” you say to yourself.
And what do you say to yourself on a minute to minute basis? Do
you always talk light-heartedly to yourself with humor, or do you
bore yourself to death? Have you already put yourself into the Norma
Joe category or do you seriously consider yourself “God’s gift to
women”?
Words are mirrors. If you see yourself as a funny guy you’ll naturally
find unlimited inspirations and confidence to instill laughter into life. If
it’s the other way round, you’ll see things as dull and lifeless.
And do you know that funny guys actually joke with themselves all
the time? To them humor is not a technique to employ in specific
conditions. Instead, it is a way of life.
To those guys, making women laugh is as simple as being
themselves!
Wouldn’t you want to be like that? See yourself as a funny guy and
start talking to yourself like one.
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Three - Take Massive Action
Take action.
Take action. Take action. Take action.
I’m sure you have heard this phrase a thousand times and I won’t
insult your intelligence by ranting more on this.
Just remember—reading through this book several times you can
become a great theorist, but that doesn’t do you much good if you
just sit there and keep imagining things.
At times, you might be tempted to say, “yeah, I know that stuff…”,
“I’ve read all those…”
Chances are that you understand it—but don’t know it—if you are
not doing what you know is right, you don’t know it.
So take action. Make mistakes. (Hey you should be prepared for
that!)
Once you have got used to rejections you won’t fear them any more.
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