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a response, the Ladies Man then proceeds to
validate her emotions by raising a similar emotionally charged
incident in his life to demonstrate that he truly understands how
she feels. He can also opt to paraphrase her emotionally charged
statements.
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Wham. Instant rapport and powerful connection!
To take advantage of feeling-based questioning, remember the
following standard questions and sprinkle them liberally in
conversations. Watch her eyes light up as she sifts through her
emotions almost as though she were in a trance.
How do you feel about that?

How does that make you feel?

What brought about your joy (sadness)?

How do you feel now?

I can see you're upset. Do you want to talk about it ?

I go through that often. Let's talk about how you feel.
These power-packed questions will immediately unleash her dam
of emotions. Make sure that you nod appreciatively while listening.
Take care not to interrupt. When she reaches the point of
emotional purging, proceed to demonstrate understanding by
raising a similar incident or describing in analogous terms your take
of her story.
Now consider a talk between Don Juan and his Lady:
DJ: Hey, how did you spend your weekend?
L: I went hiking up Mt. Craggy.
DJ: Oh, wow. That made you feel good?
L: (Beaming) Yeah. gave me a rush.
DJ: Ah... I can imagine what you mean. It's really roughing it there.
The exertion must have taken your best. Imagine... clambering
over those rocks and bracing yourself against those winds. But
when you finally get to the top, you see that expanse below you...
and your heart soars... with all that blue sky around you like the
world is your kingdom! You must find it a liberating experience!
L: Yes yes yes! That's exactly how it felt. So I camped at the peak
and waited for sunrise.
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DJ: Sunrise? It must have been magnificent! How did that make
you feel?
L: (spends ten minutes in breathless description)

Principle of Nuclear Power
Power Enthusiasm
Energy animates all living things for energy is the source of life.
From scientific observations, we discover that at every well-spring
of energy, animals, vegetation and civilizations flourish.
Moths flock around light-bulbs. Fish swarm towards lamps. Baby
chicks huddle around incubation units. Phytoplankton burgeon in
sunlight. Man builds camps around camp-fires and hunting
grounds.
As we are all naturally aware, energy attracts. The lack of energy,
on the other hand, repels. The icy wilderness sustains no life, but
the energy-rich tropical forests do.
Each human carries within him a power-source of energy. We are
walking batteries of life force. Animals and plants likewise are
miniature storehouses of energy.
Not everyone carries the same amount of energy. We classify
individuals as either high-energy or low-energy.
Experiential observations readily indicate that high-energy people
possess a natural attractive radiance. For instance, athletes,
dancers and busy executives appear more likeable than lethargic
couch potatoes. The overwhelming store of energy in active, happy
individuals creates a force which infects and enlivens those around
them.
Contrast this with the moody gloomer. People feel down around
despondent individuals and prefer to avoid them. You can actually
feel a strong drain on your own energy when you mingle with
low-energy people. It is like you are sapped of your life-force.
In most cases, attracting women to you becomes much easier
when you put on an upbeat personality as you mingle with them.
Set aside the sad stories and long faces. Project a burst of energy
by smiling sincerely, talking about happy events and moving with
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exuberance. Laugh... laugh a lot! Add bounce to your step and
quiet force in your gestures. Sprinkle pep into your every
interaction.
Spill your energy over into your personality. Reek with enthusiasm!
Manifest a zest for living. In fact, live on the edge!
Women find themselves naturally affected by emotions. Women
are sponges of feelings and their own outlook readily adjust to
those with whom they spend time with. If you want them to be
happy around you, you simply must be happy and bouncy around
them!
Exposed to your high-energy levels, women will associate their
resultant emotional high with you. They will consider your company
highly because they feel good when you are around.

Shooting the Messenger
When someone brings bad tidings, he normally faces the ire of the
recipient. The bad news, apparently, becomes identified with the
messenger. Regardless of whose fault it is, the messenger suffers
the blame.
You don't want to be associated with any bad news that could lead
to negative emotions. Hence, avoid carrying bad news to the object
of your affections, otherwise she will associate you with bad news.
Give her a lot of bad news and she will drop you like a hot potato.
Corollary to this, avoid being around women when they are in a
bad mood. It may sound like common sense, but many men start
showing up when women are in the blackest of moods, hoping to to
pull them out of their doldrums. It rarely works. Women sometimes
prefer to be alone in such times. Being there when she feels nasty
will just associate you with bad feelings in