enjoyed it! Modeling a Ladies Man to boost our
romantic prowess should be utter simplicity.
Ladies Man Technique
The first step to take is to close your eyes and envision that
superior person in your mind's eye. Picture him vividly as though
he were a few feet from you. Create an environment around him. A
good place would be a social setting. Now imagine a crowd of
adoring females around him. Observe carefully his behavior. Notice
his body language. How does he move? What does he say? Since
you are totally disjointed from this individual, it becomes easy to
imagine this superior man doing things that you would normally not
do.
Spend a few minutes in (envious) observation. Pay careful
attention to how he interacts, from approaching others to carrying
on a conversation. Your mind will be free-wheeling, generating an
image of what the superior person should be, based on your past
experiences and drawing from subconscious observations of
others more successful than you.
The next step transforms you into THAT superior man. As you
watch the Ladies Man entrance the females around him, feel your
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presence dissipate, as though you were a ghost. Feel your
presence envelope the Ladies Man and become wholly him. You
have become the LADIES MAN.
Now, proceed to behave as you have observed the Ladies Man
behaving. Seeing him act confident, sensual and suave readily
allows you to naturally behave in the same manner. Observe how
you speak, how you move, how others approach you.
You are the Ladies Man. You have already begun to acquire the
traits of the man you envied for years. Enjoy the sensations and
the power confidence that washes over you.
Now open your eyes. You have just radically expanded your
perspective of the world. Recreating your reality with the Ladies
Man exercise allows you to behave in a manner once alien to you.
You can already begin immediately to understand the secrets that
allowed others to succeed miraculously where so many have
failed. The difference between the losers and the winners obviously
spawned from their mindsets. The Ladies Man succeeded because
he had an overpowering outlook of unstoppable confidence. As the
Ladies Man in those brief minutes of reality altering, you readily
understood the key dispositions necessary to allure women.
Take out a pen and paper. List down all the emotions, beliefs and
traits you think created that Ladies Man. There should be at least
twenty. Every night gaze at that list and tell yourself this is how you
are now. This is how you will behave.
You have recreated your reality in your mind. Achieving that in the
real world will take no effort. After all, we are whom we think we
are.
Be the Ladies Man.
Principle of Value
The Eagle's Ambition
When women enter a relationship, they expect to receive
something from it. Some may aspire for contentment, others for
affection, and still others for excitement.
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At the most fundamental level, women engage in relationships to
satisfy a need for emotional security. The world is a dangerous
place, and it is in the arms of her lover that she obtains comfort
against numerous uncertainties like poverty, and hunger.
Additionally, she hopes that through romantic partnership, she can
enjoy a measurable degree of material comfort that will be
conducive to raising a future family.
These are all ends values, psychological goals that must be met to
put her mind at ease. If you can demonstrate to her that you
possess these desired values, you will instantly put her mind at
ease. Getting her comfortable is a prerequisite for creating
attraction. As you may know, a relaxed mind is more open to
romance. Hence, one requisite to laying the groundwork for
attraction is to create an aura of security. In order to engulf her with\
that sense of security, the simplest technique is for you to exude an
ambitious spirit.
The Ambitious Man
Men who have ambition are naturally attractive to the female mind.
When men have a sense of purpose, with lofty goals, they
broadcast signals of security. Females feel confident in the
company of such men because they are assured that at the very
least, their material needs will be met.
In Maslow's Heirarchy of Needs, the biological needs (such as
security against hunger, pain and bodily threat) rests at the bottom
of all human needs. Only when this is satisfied can we move on to
entertain the next level of needs, that of affection, love and
companionship.
Men can satisfy the the first level needs of women by broadcasting
ambition. Ambitious men aspire for greater achievements and are
open about their goals. They are proud about their work, and yet,
will not rest on their current successes.
To project ambition to a prospective female, begin by disclosing to
her your future dreams. If you don't have any, make sure you
create some first. Paint glowing pictures of what you hope to
achieve, whether professionally or socially.
Never, however, belittle your current standing. Avoid putting
yourself down! Why tell others you are a loser? No woman in her
right mind will consider you a worthy prospect. Bask in pride of
what you have achieved and are
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