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Strengthening exercises like these also lead to better
health and a better sense of well-being, not to mention improved
self-esteem.
The penis is no different. The PC muscle is a muscle, plain and
simple. It works and responds like any other muscle, and it can be
strengthened like any other muscle. And I've never seen a muscle
that had a greater impact on a man's self-esteem.

Just a Few Minutes a Day
Mastering the techniques of male multiple orgasm is a snap once
you are "PC-ready." And prepping your PC-getting it combat-ready-is
simple. But you must be willing to stick with the program. That's
why right now I'm going to ask you for a commitment.
I know how scary the word commitment can be to some guys, but
this is one commitment you'll never regret. Every man who is willing
to do the work can bring his PC muscle to a state of readiness
within two to three weeks. Often it takes even less than that. All
you need is a few minutes a day to work the program. That's right .
. . just a few minutes a day. That's a whole lot less time than you

15 probably spend in the gym right now working on every muscle in your
body but the one that really counts.
I know you can do it. All you need to do is stay committed to
the process. Remember, your ability to master the secrets of
multiple orgasm depends on a strong PC muscle. So warm up those cold
feet and
say yes to a commitment that is bound to change your life.

Get Ready, Get Set...
We're almost ready to start. There's just one more piece of
very important business we need to take care of. Within days of
starting the exercise regimen in this book you are going to feel
very different, and that's going to feel very good. But you are not
the only one who is going to be feeling different. If you have a
partner, your loving partner is going to be profoundly affected by
all of the changes about to take place in your body and in your
head. You need to attend to that, and you need to do that right now.
I know that you're probably feeling very excited about getting
started. But it's important to make sure that your partner shares
your enthusiasm. That's why, before I present any of the exercises,
I must ask that you and your partner sit down and have a serious
talk about the many ramifications of the journey you are both about
to take ...


CHAPTER THREE
Talking to Your Partner About Male Multiple Orgasm
Making love to a multiorgasmic man is not business as usual.
The intensity of responses and performance abilities can be quite
startling to a woman who is used to a one-orgasm guy.
I'm not a big believer in surprises when it comes to sex. If
there is a woman in your life right now, we need to make sure that
she is every bit as prepared and every bit as committed to the
process as you are. Sex doesn't happen in a vacuum. It happens
between two people. Your needs are important, but the needs of the
couple come first.
You will notice throughout the book that I have included
guidelines for a partner in most of the exercises. Hopefully, your
partner will want to follow those suggestions and take an active
role in your development. Or maybe she'd rather just wait on the
sidelines and reap the benefits at the end. That's fine too. It's up
to both of you to decide what you're most comfortable with. But
either way, your partner needs to know what's going on and you need
to know that you have her support. I make sure that all of my
clients have talked to their partners before they learn any of these
techniques, and I must ask you to do the same thing. This
conversation should not be taken lightly or given short shrift. A
lot of changes are about to take place. Your attitude toward sex is
about to change. Your attitude toward yourself is about to change.

16 So are your abilities, your physiology, and your level of desire.
Your partner has got a lot to reckon with.
If these changes are not discussed in advance, your efforts
could backfire. If you try to keep the whole thing a secret, your
partner could feel very left out. She might get confused, or
insecure, or even angry. If she's used to Old Faithful, any kind of
radical change could be quite disconcerting. She might even fear
that you are having an affair and