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actually looking
out from your own eyes. See what you saw, hear what you heard, and feel how good
it felt in your body. When those feelings of confidence and power reach their
peak in your body, reach over with your right hand, and give your left wrist a
squeeze. Run through this twice more, giving the same squeeze in the same place.
This will train your mind to recall those feelings of power and confidence
whenever you squeeze your wrist the way you are doing now.

Step Four:

Think of a situation or circumstance where you would like to be more powerful
with women or more poised or whatever it is you'd like.

Step Five:

Picture it the second way, as if it were going on and you were seeing it through
your own eyes.

Step Six:

As you do so, reach over with your right hand and squeeze your left wrist,
triggering your confidence anchor. This will train your mind to automatically
call up the feelings of confidence and power when you are in a situation like
the one you are seeing through your own eyes. You won't even have to think about
doing it, which is the advantage. (And that's why anchoring works where
"positive thinking" won't, because often by the time you get yourself thinking
positively, it's already too late.)

Now, once you've done this, I want you to do it again, but this time I want you
to pick different circumstances where you'd like to use your "power attitude"
that we talked about in the first chapter. Make one a situation where you see a
beautiful woman you'd like to talk to. Another could be making a pass at a woman
back at your place. Go through the situation with the first kind of picture,
seeing yourself in the picture. Then step into the picture, and go through it,
feeling what it would feel like, looking through your own eyes. Do the same
thing for the second "learning from your mistakes" attitude. See yourself making
a mistake, feeling ok about it, and learning whatever lesson you need so you can
do it differently next time. Then step into the picture and see it through your
own eyes.

Chapter Three

BELIEVE IT OR NOT,
HOW TO HAVE EVEN MORE CONFIDENCE WITH WOMEN

A great deal of success and power with women has nothing to do with how you act
and feel about them, but a lot to do with how you act and feel about yourself.
What we're really talking about here is SELF-RESPECT.

Plenty of men who wouldn't take a bit of crap from another guy turn into down
right spineless wimps when it comes to women. Whether they are reliving old
dramas with a mommy they couldn't please as children, or are scared for some
other reason, they put the woman first.

Other guys have a slightly different problem. They may not take any crap from a
woman, but getting laid is SO damn important to them that they lose sight of
other priorities. In a sense in loses all the fun aspects, and gets to be a
compulsion.

Guys like this may win the battles, but they are definitely losing the war.
Women may be nice additions to your life, and if you find the right one, you
might even chose to make her part of the center of yours. But a life spent doing
nothing but chasing women is a pretty stupid one.

If that is your problem, then pull yourself up short for a minute, and ask
yourself if you might be missing some of the other pleasures life has to offer.
You might be shocked to learn that a quiet evening at home with a good book can
actually be more stimulating than a boring date with a huge breasted bimbo with
a room temperature I.Q.

So here's a hint for increasing your confidence with women: STOP NEEDING THEM SO
MUCH! And a good way to do that is going out and finding a hobby that you can
really enjoy. Something that gets you AWAY from women.

Not only will this increase your confidence as you are on the prowl, it provides
a great escape for when that special lady you are with puts a bit of stress and
strain on your brain, as they so often will.

Personally, I prefer Big Mouth Bass Fishing. Most women hate even the thought of
some icky, slimy fish flopping all over them, and wouldn't even consider asking
to go along with you. And besides, I enjoy catching something with a big mouth,
and being able to