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everything non-verbal about you will show this attitude far more than
words.

This doesn't mean you have to be arrogant, or lack a sense of humor. You can be
warm and friendly at the same time you are being direct and powerful. The key is

finding the balance. Once you do you will not be able to keep women away from
you.

Now, it's easy to talk and tell you that you should have this attitude, but that
won't help you to actually get it. That's why the next couple of chapters are so
important. They will show you how to install this attitude in yourself so that
you automatically find yourself living by it in your approach to women. You
won't even have to try or to "think about it." It will just happen.

Here's the other attitude/belief you'll want to master if you really want to be
a success at scoring with women like a madman.

I DON'T GET RATTLED BY SETBACKS
BECAUSE I LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES.

I remember watching a TV show where the host was interviewing a movie
star/karate champ who shall go nameless. The host asked him what the secret of
his success was, and the karate guy looked at him in that wooden way of his and
said:

"When I first started out competing in Karate Tournaments, I wasn't that good. I
got beat a lot, but I always learned from my mistakes. Instead of crying over my
losing, I just studied what I would have to do differently the next time, and
whenever I met the same guy again or a different guy in the same situation, I
ALWAYS creamed 'em."

Look - unless you are unusually lucky, chances are you are going to make a few
mistakes as you practice the ideas in this book. And, as great as these tricks
are, they won't work every single time.
Unless you know how to learn from your mistakes and accept and occasional loss,
you will get nowhere. The most successful guys I know at scoring all have two
great strengths: They have the first power attitude we've just looked at, and
they also know how to accept getting rejected without it bothering them and they
learn from their mistakes.

Ok. As I promised, let's get on to the next couple of chapters which will show
you how to actually live these attitudes instead of just reading about them.

Chapter Two

HOW TO INSTALL
THE SUPER GET LAID ATTITUDES IN YOURSELF
SO YOU USE THEM AUTOMATICALLY

There is one small point you have to get before you can use this exercise. Take
a minute to imagine yourself riding in a roller coaster. See yourself sitting in
the front car, riding up and down.

Now, make another picture of a roller coaster, but this time, do NOT see
yourself in the picture. See it as if you were actually looking out of your own
eyes, sitting in the roller coaster. Ride for a few moments.

Now, which one of those felt more real in your body? I'll bet anything it was
the second kind. An image or goal only appears real to your mind if it comes in
the second form, as if you were seeing it through your own eyes.

THE FAILURE TO UNDERSTAND THIS SIMPLE DIFFERENCE
BETWEEN THE TWO KINDS OF MENTAL PICTURES PEOPLE MAKE
IS THE SINGLE BIGGEST REASON WHY MOST PEOPLE
NEVER REACH THEIR GOALS.

You could imagine yourself acting confident and powerful until you are blue in
the face, but unless you give your mind some cues as to when it is going to tap
into those pictures you will get NOWHERE. You will never tap into all those
great resources you've been imagining.

For ease we are going to call the first kind of picture, where you do see
yourself, picture type 1, and the second kind of picture where you do not see
yourself, picture type 2.

Ok. Now that we have made that clear, let's get on to the exercise.

Step One:

Recall a time in your past when you felt confident and powerful. A time where
you fully felt the way you'd like to feel around women. This can be anywhere and
about anything - a great golf shot you made, or an "A" book report you did in
school.


Step Two:

Close your eyes, and see yourself in the first kind of picture, going through
that experience again.

Step Three:

Now, step into the picture, and see the events as if you were