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lead to deeper vaginal orgasms, and possibly to female
ejaculatory orgasms. Not all women like to have this area stimulated even
after they are fully aroused. The only way to know for sure is to find it and
try. If she does like to have her Goddess spot touched and she is
sufficiently aroused, when you do touch it you should get a strong react\
ion
of pleasure from her! This spot, once properly awakened is so intensely
pleasurable, that she will almost certainly let you know with sounds,
words, and body movement, how much she likes it when you touch her
there in the right way at the right time.

Dildos can be useful in this instance. A dildo artfully applied in
lovemaking can help a woman to go on from clitoral to the deeper vaginal
orgasms, including ejaculatory orgasms. The dildo can be used before
there is any penetration with the penis. Or the man may withdraw his penis
for a rest, and apply the dildo in its place. This alternating penetrati\
on with
your penis and with a dildo can be repeated as often as necessary to ena\
ble
the man to delay ejaculation and successfully extend the active
lovemaking for hours at a time. The dildo can also be used after the man
has ejaculated. In this way even the most aroused and hungry woman can
be given complete satisfaction regardless of your capacity to maintain an
erection or delay ejaculation.
There are dildos specifically designed to reach the G-spot. They have a
crook in the end, so that when they are inserted into the vagina,
the crook can be turned to exactly the right angle to reach the
Goddess spot and drive her wild with excitement. If you can find
the G-spot and stimulate it until your woman has her first
vaginal orgasm, this is the perfect time to insert your penis. You
are still fresh and she may be so highly aroused that she
immediately goes on to have multiple deep vaginal orgasms
within minutes of your penetration. She may even ejaculate.
If you have never experienced it when your woman ejaculates, it is a
wonder to behold. No one knows how many women could learn to have
vaginal ejaculatory orgasms, but many women stop themselves because
they feel as if they were going to urinate. It is a good idea to make sure she
urinates before lovemaking starts, so she will know that the feeling she has
does not mean she has to urinate. If she can relax enough to get beyond
this feeling of having to urinate, this type of orgasm may be the most
intense she will ever have. The fluid that is ejaculated can be quite a
quantity - she can really soak the bed, but it is clear, odorless, taste\
less,
and does not stain! This fluid is not urine. Knowing this may help her to
let go into this wonderful experience.
Size Matters
Generally we recommend average size dildos, close to the size of an
average sized penis. Most penises are 6-8 inches in length when fully
erect. Huge size is not usually any advantage unless the woman has an
unusually large vagina. The average woman will not appreciate a giant
sized dildo. It is a good idea to start with a smaller model and work up to
larger only when you know your partner would appreciate the larger size.\

Skill, technique, and heart opening (making an emotional connection) are
the really important factors rather than size. Of course this is true of your
penis as well. A skillful, careful, attentive lover, who can delay ejaculation

even when highly sexually aroused, is a great lover, regardless of the s\
ize
of his jade stalk.
Lovemaking and Prostate Health
Any man who practices prolonged lovemaking without ejaculation will
likely experience some discomfort in his prostate. This is not dangerous
and is not related to BPH (benign prostatic hyperplasia). The healthy
normal prostate is about the size of a chestnut and weighs about 20 grams.
With the onset of BPH, for reasons we do not know, the prostate may start
to enlarge and can grow to the size of a lemon or an orange or even a
grapefruit!
Because the prostate surrounds the neck of both the bladder and the
urethra (urine and ejaculate fluids travel out through the urethra),
enlargement of the prostate can cause problems. The most notable
symptoms include difficulty with urination, including that it is hard to start
and the flow will be obstructed. You may also find yourself having to get
up to go to the bathroom frequently in the night, or having to go to the
bathroom frequently during the day. Actually BPH is a condition that will
affect almost all men who live