David DeAngelo - Double Your Dating - Critical Moments And Bridges

Critical Moments And Bridges
How To Go From One Step To The Next With Women -
The First Meeting To The Bedroom
When I first started learning about how to meet women, I realized that
there were some major 'problem areas' that I had to deal with.
After learning how to handle them myself, I realized that almost ALL
men have these same stumbling blocks. Here I hope to help you see these
areas and improve the ones that you need help with.
To begin with, let me explain what I mean by a 'Critical Moment.'
These are the moments in time where you have to do something to
advance to the next level.
For instance: If you're with a woman and you're having a great
conversation, you might want to take the relationship to a physical level.
Most men I know are not sure how to 'transition' into this next phase.
Or let's say you see a woman that you'd like to meet, and you have to
decided whether or not you're going to walk over and say hello. This is a
critical moment. If you don't do it, you probably won't get another chance.
I know one guy who meets a lot of women. Women really seem to like
him when they first meet him. He can get dates, and get them to come
home with him. But every time he tries to get physical with a woman, she
decides that it's time to leave.
I know another guy who meets women everywhere we go. Women just
love him. They laugh and joke with him. But he never asks any of them for
their phone number, so he doesn't date any of them.
The problem with Critical Moments is that they almost ALWAYS require
the man to take initiative and do something that can be REJECTED by the
woman. For instance, walking up and saying hello, asking for a date, kissing
her, etc.
In all of these situations, a man has to go through the possibility of
rejection. This keeps most men from even trying. And most guys have at
least one or two areas that they're not confident about.
If you're not confident and know exactly where you're going and what
you're doing, you're going to be likely to make a mistake, say something

wrong, and cause the woman to reject you at one of these important turning
points.
The danger, of course, is that if a man makes a mistake at one of these
key times that offends the woman, she may decide to leave.
Every new relationship is like a complex puzzle. You can make it
through many steps, then make a mistake and have it all fall apart. Are you
with me?
Here's my list of the Critical Moments:
1. Approach (Walking over and saying hello)
2. Digits (Getting a phone number, email address, etc.)
3. Date request (This can actually be done when you first meet)
4. Date (The actual time with her)
5. Hold hands (The first sustained physical contact)
6. Kiss (The first 'intimate' contact)
7. Alone in private (Trust)
8. Make out (Sexually aroused)
9. Clothes off (Very sexually aroused)
10. Sex (Very very very sexually aroused!)
As far as I'm concerned, if a person needs improvement in an area of
life, they usually need to learn a new SKILL. Too many people make the
mistake of thinking that something's wrong with them, and that they'll never
be able to overcome their obstacle. Just remember, it's all about learning a
new skill to overcome each obstacle.
So I've taken each of these different Critical Moments and created what
I call a 'Bridge' for each.
Let me explain what a Bridge is.
Before each Critical moment, there are certain things that happen.
These often set up the Critical Moment that is about to follow.
For instance, if you're talking to a woman on the telephone, and you
want to ask her for a coffee date, what happens on that phone call will
largely determine whether or not she meets you.
Or if you are on a date, and you'd like to kiss her, her mood and level of
enjoyment is going to determine whether or not she's going to be receptive
to a kiss.

The times 'between' Critical Moments are Bridges. If you set up the
critical moment correctly, you will be much more likely to be successful than
if you don't. If you learn all of my 'Bridge Strategies' this will help you move
smoothly from one Critical Moment to the next.
And the best part about some of my Bridge techniques is that they
CAUSE HER to take the initiative and go to the next level. For instance, if
you're alone with a woman who you've already kissed, and you'd like to
make out with her, you can use my 'smelling her' technique.
By taking a few minutes and smelling her neck and shoulders, she'll
usually get so turned on that she grabs you and makes out with you right
there! (Of course, you'll want to push her away and tease her a bit, because
this will amplify her desire even more - and it will be fun for both of you!)
Probably the most important Bridge is