David DeAngelo - Double Your Dating - Bridges | Page 4

to
be smelled, and it instantly turns them on.
I'm about to teach you a couple of killer moves, so get ready.
In the animal kingdom, different animals have different signals that tell
the other that they're interested. When some of these signals are sent by
the male, the females actually BECOME PARALYSED and freeze in a sexually
aroused position.
Women have this same mechanism... shhhhhhh!
Here are the things that trigger it:
1. Pulling her hair gently (run your hand up the back of her neck into
her hair, then make a fist and pull lightly).
2. Biting her neck gently (no Dracula here, just lightly).
3. Breathing in her ear and whispering.
4. Kissing her neck.
If you take some time smelling her, she will start to get turned on. Then
it's time to try one of the above to take her to the next level! This is when
you can start gently rubbing her breasts, etc. and go with some heavy
petting.

Bridge To #9: Clothes Off
I have found that many women are shy, self conscious, and nervous
about taking their clothes off. If you know how to overcome this, it will
obviously help you have more sex.
I just mentioned a few techniques for making a woman literally
paralyzed with stimulation. Here's where you want to really turn up the
volume. It's time to use these one after another.
Compliments also work well at this point. Since most women are self
conscious about their bodies, a simple "I think you have such a sexy body"
will work wonders. Women often need to know that you find them attractive.
Now you can start taking off the clothes... first shirt, then bra, then
pants... etc. Go slowly, and if she stops you, just take that as a signal that
you need to keep up the smelling, neck kissing, ear breathing, etc.
NEVER keep going if a woman says "Stop." But stop doesn't usually
mean "Stop and go away," it usually means "Stop, I need you to turn me on
some more."
(I hate to have to do this, but there are some men who don't get it,
so... don't force yourself on women! If she's not into you, leave. Don't be a
dumb-ass, and don't date rape women!)
So just keep talking sexy to her, kissing, etc. Then try again. The more
turned on she gets, the more the clothes come off.
Bridge To #10: Sex
The most important part of the Bridge to sex is being prepared!
Sometimes a guy will ask me "What do I do once I get her back to my
place?"
I ask them "Do you keep your bed made?" and "Do you have condoms
in the house?"
Usually, I can find at least one thing that would make it almost
impossible for them to succeed with a woman!
So be ready! Buy condoms, make sure your house is neat and bed is
made... be prepared! Think through what is going to have to happen in order
for you to follow through once a woman is there and the situation is right.

Ok... on to the specifics:
I've personally found that if you get a woman turned on enough, she'll
take the initiative and signal that she's ready.
This signal can be anything from rubbing her hips against you to
grabbing your crotch, etc. I don't like to push women... I like them to get so
turned on that they say "Please." And I'm not kidding!
I learned from a friend that if you start, then stop, then start, then
stop... she'll get REALLY turned on. So do that! Women love a challenge,
and if you can be a challenge in this area, then you're the man!
So kiss her body for awhile, then stop. Then kiss her neck. Then stop.
Then breathe in her ear... then stop. You get it. If you're patient, she'll
eventually do something blatant that says "OK, enough! I'm ready!"
So now you understand the concept of Critical Moments and Bridges.
I encourage you to take a few minutes right now and write down where
you need improvement. Then take the time to learn the SKILLS you need to
do better in those areas. I know it can be done. You just have to do it!
I hope you've enjoyed this and learned from it.
Please email me at [email protected] if you have
any feedback!
©2001, ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ANY UNAUTHORIZED DUPLICATION, TRANSFER, OR USE IS A VIOLATION OF FEDERAL LAW, AND MY
ATTORNEY WILL DEFINITELY COME AFTER YOU FOR IT!