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If you think you can be a Level 5 without mastering the fundamentals as a Level 4, you are
actually a Level 3, looking for a quick f ix.
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THE FLIRTING MOVES THAT GET YOU
OUT OF THE “LOWLY FRIEND”
CATEGORY AND INTO THE
“POTENTIAL LOVER” CATEGORY
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lirting moves are not hard to do: it’s not physically diff icult to wink, or to look into a
woman’s eyes. But flirting moves can be challenging if you are not used to doing them.
The successful “level 4” or “level 5” seducer shows his romantic interest right away through
his flirting. You must learn to do this, too, or women will see you as a friend.
These are just the basic moves. Conversational flirting—which is another realm of flirting
entirely—is covered in the tape series, “The Mastery Program.”
1) LOOK INTO HER EYES“TOO LONG”
This is simply holding eye contact a little bit longer than you normally would. While you are
conversing with her, you want to be sure to have eye contact at least some of the time. At least
once it’s a good idea to hold the eye contact a little “too long,” just a fraction too long, so there’s
a brief, more intimate moment between you.
2) MAKE DECISIONS EASILY
It’s important to make sure that you make decisions easily. Remember your outcome: romantic
feelings, and moving the seduction along. This means that making a decision quickly is more
important than choosing the perfect type of coffee, or taking the time to really think about
whether you want cherry Danish or a plain one. By making decisions quickly, you show her that
you are a decisive man who she won’t have to take care of.
3) WINK AT HER
You can wink at someone from across the room, or wink at someone during a conversation. If
she says something funny, or someone else does something silly, you can give a wink as a way
of sharing a little moment for just the two of you, as if the two of you are in on some private
joke no one else is aware of.
4) CHECK OUT HER BODY
Checking out her body must be done properly. The goal is for your new friend to feel compli-
mented that you noticed her body, not objectif ied like some piece of meat. You do this by mak-
ing eye contact, then quickly, in less than a second, passing your eyes down and then up over

her body, then back to looking in the eyes. It should happen quickly, and you should be
unashamed of taking a glance. Just don’t do it too often—two times during a coffee date, for
instance, is plenty.
5) KEEP YOUR BODY POWERFUL
Women want to be with men who are engaged in their lives. You’ll appear even more engaged if
you sit, stand and move like you are both fascinated and fascinating. As a bonus, moving as if
you are totally engaged with and turned on by life will perk you up and give you more energy
for the interaction.
6) COMPLIMENT HER
You want to cultivate complimenting her as a potential lover, not as a tepid friend. Let’s talk
briefly about the difference: A man who is destined to be a woman’s friend compliments her by
saying something like, “you have a very nice briefcase.” The compliment doesn’t show that he
is interested in her romantically, or that he notices anything romantic about her. Put another
way, it’s a compliment another woman might give to her. If you give a woman a compliment
that another woman might give her, you might as well be another woman, striking up a casual
friendship.
You want to make it clear that you are a man who is noticing her as a woman, rather than an
amorphous blob of undef ined protoplasm who might as well be another woman talking to her.
A man who is committed to being seen as a potential lover gives compliments that show that he
notices her as a woman. Rather than saying, “You have a nice briefcase” he’ll say something
like “You have beautiful eyes,” or “Your smile is so beautiful, it lights up the room.”
At f irst it may be uncomfortable for you to compliment her, that is okay—keep going, keep
taking the risk, and up the passion in your compliments. Yes, you are risking rejection, but that’s
good! Remember the rejection process, and remember to celebrate your victories!
7) WHISPER TO HER/LEAN INTO HER SPACE
Whispering to her doesn’t mean you have to get all the way up to her ear…it may be too early
in your interaction with her to get that close. But you can lean into her space, and lower the vol-
ume of your voice, to share something with her
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WHERE CAN I GO TO FIND
SINGLE WOMEN?
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