you. There is more on how to
use; language in a really artful way on my Capture and Lead The Imagination
report. For now I want to give you something that you can take away and use
right now. If you would rather master how to embed commands into your
conversations and how to get women to access feelings of passion, wanton\
desire and feeling incredibly horny, buy my report on Capturing and Leading
the Imagination.
By now, you might have already guessed that the previous two paragraphs
are a working example of how you can do this with people. Please read and
reread it as, all you really need to know to be able to work out how to \
do use
language in this way is in those two paragraphs.
For now let me talk about making conversation because some men don’t \
always find it easy.
Okay here is another key point:
Good conversationalists listen more than they talk
The structure of good conversations are made up of loops from figure two
below:
So a good conversationalist will offer some information, invite a respon\
se and
then acknowledge that response before giving out some more information t\
o
invite responses from.
For example:
“That’s a really nice dress you’ve got on. It really suits you (this is the
inform bit and then the invite is a simple question like…) “Where\
do you
do your shopping?”
And off she goes on one of women’s favourite topics (only kidding).\
Once she
tells you about her favourite shopping haunts you can link in to any of \
the
things that she might have given.
“Oh, I didn’t know you could buy such good quality clothes in Help\
the
Aged (this acknowledges her response and informs her that you
haven’t been there. So here comes the next invite…) “How did y\
ou
discover such a great place to shop?”
Of she goes again. Half an hour later you are building great rapport because
she is doing most of the talking and you have shown lots of interest in \
her.
Simple really? No need for cheesy chat up lines, a nice easy flow to the\
conversation and a great way to build deeper levels of rapport. With me , the
more I look at conversations this way the more I get an easy flow to all my
conversations.
Now just imagine that woman you have decided is worth speaking to. You
notice something about her, the location or the situation that gives you an
opening (I prefer "about her" as this makes a very personal approach,
although to personal and it will scare her off, so be careful). You the\
n walk up,
building rapport and getting her to smile back at you and then launch in\
to your
conversation model “I just had to come over and say I noticed your le\
gs. I
think firm calf muscles on a woman look great. How often do you work out\
?”
Okay, that probably wasn’t the best, but you get the picture.
Now the real strength to this appr oach is weaving the two approaches
together. By using ways of creating st ate changes in a conversational model
you will have a powerful tool to associate good feelings that a woman mi\
ght
experience directly to you. You can read more detail on how to do this i\
n my
special report on
How to Capture and Lead the Imagination.
For the moment just imagine suddenly meeting the woman of your dreams
walking up to her and starting a great conversation that leads her gently
towards feeling really good and then associating that to you. I assume y\
ou
can feel great thinking about that. Now, how would you feel if that was your
experience every day of the week? Wouldn’t you just have a great time
practicing these skills more and more? This is my reality and it could be yours,
just how good can you feel thinking about that now?
That’s it folks. I hope you had a good time reading this report. And \
I do hope
you will go out and have a go with this material. There is a load more t\
o tell
you about each of these sections, but this is enough to get you going and start
you practicing. If you want some really cool exercises that would allow you to
gently integrate this approac h then please feel free to
download my special
reports
on
- Creating a Wining Mindset
- Building Instant Connections
- Capturing and Leading the Imagination
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