A Jolly by Josh | Page 7

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You must remember also that there is a certain amount of allowance to
be made for some rather indefinite objects, which are none the less
important, and which, for want of a better name, I shall call the Discard.
Among these can be named the education of the imagination, having a
good time generally, foolishness, mysticism, good fellowship, æsthetics,
humanity, and humanities in general. The fact that many a man has
thrown himself away by putting all his time into these things, and lived
solely for good fellowship, for foolishness, or for imagination without
attainment, is no reason why you should not partake in a small measure
of these qualities, which is like the wheel grease on the axle or the
clown in the circus. It is apt to be even more important yet, as it may
prove to be the road to friendship, societies, society, and love.
Moreover, you should not forget that, in the pursuit of your object, you
must provide a material recreation for yourself,--literature, music, art,
billiards, anything; something that will give you (and others, if possible)
pleasure and diversion, and render your happiness independent of your
work, if for any reason you are prevented from devoting your life to it.
We are now prepared to go over some of your pursuits with our
touchstone, and see which ones we can recommend and which we
cannot, which of the desires with which you are confronted or may be
confronted are worth while or worth the expenditure of energy.
FOOD?
You should make no stipulation about your food, except that it be
wholesome. The pleasantness of its taste in your mouth should have
little weight with you. If you confine yourself to just that food which
you like, and get so that your comfort depends on it, you will deliver
over your freedom just as though you delivered yourself to be bound

hand and foot in a dungeon. When the time comes that you must cut
down your expenditure and live less "well," you become unhappy, as
you have taught yourself to look upon all food with the idea that it
should give you pleasure rather than sustenance.
YACHTING?
By all means. It gives judgment, coolness, and readiness to face and
overcome danger, muscle, ozone, handiness of hands, steadiness of eye,
experience, and a sense of the depth and expanse of the ocean. By all
means, yachting, but not for the purpose of show, as giving orders
before other people, of taking dilatory trips in fair weather only, and
lounging in an easy-chair on the deck of some yacht while others take
the responsibility and do the work. While going to the expense of
keeping a boat, you should so mould your life as to use it constantly. If
you keep a boat on the off chance of wanting it every other week or just
for the sense of having it ready, you will make it an annoyance to
yourself rather than a pleasure. But here caution is recommended; and
you should only keep a yacht if you can do so well within your means,
and thoroughly understanding that some day you may have to give it up,
and that you must not think that a hardship.
CLOTHES?
Yes, but within bounds. You can always afford to pay more for clothes
than they are worth, and pay more attention to them also than they are
worth; but here again temperance is recommended.
HORSES?
Yes; that is, enough to learn to ride, to master your horse, develop your
muscle and abandon and poise, but not enough to watch jockeys
carrying your colors or your coachman before you carrying your reins.
Learn to ride, learn to drive; but that does not mean necessarily that you
had better bring a pony back with you.
THEATRES?

Use theatres sparingly. They are perfect gluttons for time, and use up
money. But of these the more important is time, and they make
desperate inroads into the next day. So be temperate in theatres. Put
part in for education and part for the discard.
BOOKS?
By all means. Spare no money on them. Be a spendthrift for books. We
can always afford them; but pay for the printed matter, and not for the
covers. If you choose books wisely and know what is in them and
where to get at them when you want them, you can for a very small
expense have a mine of information and recreation at your elbow,
which could make you the best educated of men.
CLUBS?
Freely. It mostly goes to the discard; but you can afford that, provided
you are careful not to have too great a waste of time. There are more
opportunities lost inside of club walls than are gained.
CARDS?
There is no gain