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just confidence to execute seduction perfectly.

Again,

Sex = Perception + Opportunity

If you are already getting the amount of sex you want then by law you are meeting the
requirements.

If you don't understand what that means, that’s not a problem. It will be explained in
great detail later.

Here’s a quick story that is true.

About six years ago I became the number one salesman for a company. The top
executives became so impressed with the sales records I was breaking that they made
special trips to see me. When asked what I saying to the customers, I told them:

"…nothing special. I just focus on getting the customer to realize that it makes sense
(perception) to buy what I am offering and then finding out if they have the money to buy
or the time to buy (opportunity)."

Even though that response didn’t impress them it was simple and very effective.

In the seduction world the same rules apply.

The opportunity to allow sex to take place must be there. And she must perceive you as a
person that is sexually desirable.

Before we look at getting that “lust-generating” perception -- which can be a very
exciting process -- let’s look at what it means to have an opportunity.

In simple terms, if you want to have sex with a female but there is no place to do it, then
that means you don't have an opportunity to have sex with her.

You would think that this is obvious, but many guys get rejected for sex because they
have no opportunity when they initiate (ask for) sex.

For example a guy initiates sex with his “neat-freak” female companion even though his
room/apartment is messy. He has no idea that an opportunity doesn’t exist.

An opportunity is simply a place, convenient time, suitable mindset, to have sex.

SuperHappySex.com CR James
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The reason why this seemingly obvious part of this simple equation is being spotlighted
is because there are millions and millions of guys out there that aren’t having sex just
because they lack the opportunity. They haven't created an opportunity.

Just because you are willing (or you think there is an opportunity) doesn't mean that your
partner is willing under the same conditions.

So as you can see, it is super simple to focus on finding out what her obstacles are so that
you can remove them. And as a result, you will lengthen your opportunities to have sex -
which is simply the potential to have sex.

Many guys have no concept of her personal distractions - the things that make her
incapable of having sex. She may want to have sex with you, but she may not want to
have sex in a messy room (for example). She may be desiring sex or at a minimum open
to the idea one second, but not open to the idea of having sex a little bit later on when she
is tired.

To maximize your opportunities, you need to REMOVE the obstacles that turn her off
and then ADD the things that turn her on.

For example:

It would be good to initiate sex in a clean