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Weakness
of Husband--Frigidity and Dislike of Husband--Organic Causes of
Frigidity--A Frigid Woman May Become Passionate-- Treatment of
Frigidity.

XLIII. ADVICE TO FRIGID WOMEN, PARTICULARLY WIVES
304
Advice to Frigid Women--Attitude of Different Men Towards Frigid
Wives--Orgasm a Subjective Feeling--A Justifiable Innocent
Deception--The Case of a Demi-Mondaine.
XLIV. RAPE 308
Definition of Rape--Age of Consent--Unanimous Opinion of
Experts--Exceptional Cases--False Accusation of Rape Due to
Perversion--Erotic Dreams Under Anesthesia Causing Accusations
Against Doctors and Dentists.
XLV. THE SINGLE STANDARD OF SEXUAL MORALITY 311
Chastity--Double Standard of Morality--Attempt to Abolish Double
Standard--Late Marriages and Chastity in Men--Harmful Advice Given
to Young Women--Chastity in Men Not Always Due to Moral
Principles--Chaste Men and Satisfactory Husbands--A Statement by
Professor Freud--A Statement by Professor Michels--What a Girl has a
Right to Demand of Her Future Husband--Three Cases Showing
Disastrous Effects of Wrong Teachings.
XLVI. DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MAN'S AND WOMAN'S SEX
AND LOVE LIFE 318
Seemingly Contradictory Statements--Faulty Interpretations of Words
Sexual Instinct and Love--Difference in Manifestations of Male and
Female Sexual Instincts--Man's Sex Instinct Grosser Than
Woman's--Awakening of Sexual Desire in the Boy and in the
Girl--Woman's Desire for Caresses--Man's Main Desire for Sexual
Relations--Normal Sex Relations as Means of Holding a Man--A
Physiological Reason Why Man is Held--Man and Physical
Love--Woman and Spiritual Love--Preliminaries of Sexual Intercourse
in Men and Women--Physical Attributes-- Mental and Spiritual
Qualities--Difference Between Love and "Being in Love"--Love as a
Stimulus to Man--When the Man Loves--When the Woman

Loves--Man's More Engrossing Interests--Lovemaking Irksome to
Man--Man's Polygamous Tendencies--Woman Single-affectioned in
Her Sex and Love Life--Man and Woman Biologically Different.
XLVII. MATERNAL IMPRESSIONS 327
Wide-spread Belief in Maternal Impressions--No Single
Well-authenticated Case of Maternal Impression--Birth of
Monstrosities--Ridiculous Examples Given by Physicians-- So-called
Shock Often a Product of Mother's Imagination-- Four Cases of
Alleged Maternal Impressions--Mother's Health During Pregnancy
May Have Effect Upon Child's General Health.
XLVIII. ADVICE TO THE MARRIED AND THOSE ABOUT TO BE
336
Marriage as an Ideal Institution--Monogamic Marriage--Some Reasons
for Husbands' Deviations--Importance of First Few Weeks of Married
Life--Necessity for Understanding at Beginning--Preventing and
Breaking Habits--The Wife's Individuality--Husbands Who are
Childish, Not Vicious-- Wife's Interest in Husband's Affairs--The
"Slob" Husband-- The Well-groomed Husband--Bad Odor from the
Mouth--Odors from Other Parts of the Body--Treatment for Bad Odor
from Perspiration--A Beneficial Powder--Advice Regarding
Flirting--Dainty Underwear--Fine External Clothes and Cheap and
Soiled Underwear--Delicate Adjustments of Sex Act Required with
Some Men--Wife Who Discusses Her Husband's Foibles--A
Professional Secret--A Case of Temporary Impotence--The Wife's
Indiscretion--The Disastrous Result--A Big Stomach--The Wife's
Attitude Towards the Marital Relation--Behavior Preliminary to and
During the Act-- Congenital Frigidity--Prudish and Vicious Ideas
About the Sex Act--Sexual Intercourse for Procreative Purposes
Only--Fear of Pregnancy on the Part of the Wife--The Remedy--Other
Causes--Wife who Makes too Frequent Demands-- Sacrificing the
Future to the Present--Esthetic Considerations.
XLXIX. A RATIONAL DIVORCE SYSTEM 356

A Rational Divorce System--Storms and Squalls--Two Sides of the
Divorce Question--Outside Help and Marital Tangles--A Husband who
was a Paragon of Virtue--The Case of the Sweet Wife--The Proper
Untangling of Domestic Tangles.
L. WHAT IS LOVE? 361
Is Love Definable?--Raising a Corner of the Veil--Two Opinions of
Love--The First Opinion: Sexual Intercourse and Love--The Second
Opinion--The Grain of Truth in Each--The Truth Concerning
Love--Foundation of Love--Sexual Attraction and Love--The Frigid
Woman and Her Husband--Puzzling Cases of Love--The
Paradox--Blindness of Love and the Penetrating Vision of
Love--Limits of Homeliness--Physical Aversion and Genesis of
Love--Mating in the Animal Kingdom--Mating in Low Races--Love in
People of High Culture--Difference in Love of Savage and Man of
Culture--Distinctions Between Loves--Varieties of Love and Varieties
of Men--"Love" Without Sexual Desire--Refraining and
Wanting--Cause of Love at First Sight--"Magnetic Forces" and Love at
First Sight--The Pathological Side--Differentiation of Phases of
Love--Infatuation--Difference Between "Infatuation" and "Being in
Love"--Sexual Satisfaction and Infatuation--Sexual Satisfaction and
Love--Infatuation Mistaken for Love--Love the Most Mysterious of
Human Emotions--Great Love and Supreme Happiness.
LI. JEALOUSY AND HOW TO COMBAT IT 375
Jealousy the Most Painful of Human Emotions--Impairment of
Health--Mental Havoc--Jealousy as a Primitive Emotion-- Jealousy in
the Advanced Thinker and in the Savage--Jealousy in the
Child--Feelings and Environmental Factors--Essential
Factors--Vanity--Anger--Pain--Envy--The Impotent Husband's
Jealousy--Anti-social Qualities--The Jealous and the Unfaithful
Husband--Means of Eradicating the Evil--Iwan Bloch on the
Question--Prof. Robert Michels' Statement-- Remark of Prof. Von
Ehrenfels--Havelock Ellis on Variation in Sexual
Relationships--Advanced Ideas--Woman as Man's Chattel--The Change
and the Changer--Teaching the Children-- Casting Epithets at

Jealousy--Free Unions and Jealousy-- Feelings, Actions and Public
Opinion--The Adulterous Wife of the Present Day--Jealousy Defeating
Its Own Object--Jealousy of Inanimate Objects.
LII. REMEDIES FOR JEALOUSY 395
Prevention and Cure--Prophylaxis of Jealousy--Fitting Remedy to
Circumstances--The Neglectful and Flirtatious Husband--No Question
of Love--Advice to the Wife of the Flirtatious Man--An Efficient
Though Vulgar Remedy--Jealousy Must Be Experienced to Be
Understood--Necessity for Freedom of Association--Lines of Conduct
for the Wife--Contempt for a Certain Type of Wife and Husband--The
Abandoned Lover--The Effects of Unrequited Love--Sublimated
Sexual Desire-- Replacing Unrequited Love--The Attitude of Goethe--
Simultaneous Loves Possible--Successive Loves