Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery - Tantric Sex (2001)

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Ultimate
UltimateUltimate Ultimate


Ejaculation
EjaculationEjaculation Ejaculation

Mastery
Mastery Mastery Mastery


The
Ultimate Ecstatic Solution To Premature Ejaculation


The Tantric Approach to Making Love For As Long As Your Partner
Wants, While You Experience More Ecstasy Than You Ever Imagined
Possible







Version 1.0 June 2001


Copyright 2001 © Tantra At Tahoe
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Table of Contents


Chapter 1: Introduction .................................................................................. 1
1.1 The Perfect Evening ................................................................................ 1
1.2 Book Objectives...................................................................................... 5
1.3 Cuming Quickly Is Common and Curable ............................................... 8
1.4 Book Overview...................................................................................... 10
Chapter 2: Mechanics................................................................................... 13
2.1 The Anatomy of Ejaculation.................................................................. 13
2.2 Causes Of Premature Ejaculation ......................................................... 15
2.3 How Can Tantra Help? ......................................................................... 23
2.4 Why Not Ejaculate? .............................................................................. 26
2.5. The Ultimate Approach ........................................................................ 28
Chapter 3: Solo Prep .................................................................................... 40
3.1 Practice Guidelines............................................................................... 40
3.2 Desensitizing ........................................................................................ 45
3.3 Relaxing ............................................................................................... 47
3.4 Opening Senses.................................................................................... 51
3.5 Measured Self-Pleasuring ..................................................................... 59
3.6 PC Pump ............................................................................................. 62
Chapter 4: Solo Mastery ............................................................................... 69
4.1 Peaking ................................................................................................ 69
4.2 Interrupting Ejaculation ....................................................................... 73
4.3 Sexual Breathing.................................................................................. 80
4.4 Plateauing ............................................................................................ 89
Chapter 5: Partner Prep................................................................................ 92
5.1 False Expectations Will Kill You............................................................ 92
5.2 Partnering Guidelines........................................................................... 93
5.3 Turning Each Other On ...................................................................... 100
5.4 Taking Turns...................................................................................... 107
5.5 Doing Each Other At The Same Time ................................................. 113
Chapter 6: Lovemaking............................................................................... 115
6.1 Patience, My Friend ............................................................................ 116
6.2 Sexual Positions ................................................................................ 118
6.3 Approaching Slowly ............................................................................ 120
6.4 Moving Exercises................................................................................ 125
6.5 The Art Of Fucking ............................................................................. 130
Chapter 7: Tantric Mastery......................................................................... 139
7.1 The Tantra Vision ............................................................................... 139
7.2 Tantric Love Play ................................................................................ 153
7.3 Moving Energy ................................................................................... 155
7.4 Exercise: Creating The Space For Tantric Love Play ........................... 157
7.5 Exercise: Shangri-La ......................................................................... 159
Chapter 8: Final Thoughts.......................................................................... 162

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8.1 Another Story ..................................................................................... 162
8.2 Hands-On Coaching ........................................................................... 164
8.3 Smart Sex .......................................................................................... 165
8.4 Bibliography....................................................................................... 167
8.5 Music Recommendations .................................................................... 171
8.6 Glossary Of Terms .............................................................................. 174

Chapter 1: Introduction
I want to tell you a true story about a typical sexual encounter between me and
the sexiest, most passionate woman I've ever met. Of course, passion is only one
of the reasons I married Jeffre. I hope reading it turns you on as much as writing
it turned me on. If you play with yourself while visualizing this story, I would be
honored. We're here to enjoy sex, right?

I just want you to remember that, no matter how insecure you are about your
ability to master ejaculation, this story is about someone who was one of the
world's champions at cuming fast, namely me. I never entered Olympic fast
cuming trials (do they still have that event?), but I bet I could have placed high
without even trying. No, I could have won a gold medal while trying my
damnedest not to cum.

That's how I used to be. I'm different now as the following story illustrates. And
it's not just with this one wonderful woman.

1.1 The Perfect Evening
We always do our best to make love in the moment, with no stress in the
perfect surroundings. That evening was no exception. It was early enough
that we weren't exhausted from the day and had no time limit.

We bathed each other carefully to wash away the outside world. We entered
our private Tantric temple (our bedroom) which was decorated with harem
fabrics and appointed to heighten our senses. We lit candles, sprayed perfume,
and arranged flowers to add a sensuous touch. As usual, we carefully selected
three of our most sensuous music CDs to match our mood. We titillated all of
our senses from a distance long before our love play began.

As we sat cross-legged on our big bed, I marveled at how desirable the glinting
candlelight made her ever-young-looking body appear. Just then, that familiar

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tingle that presages an erection began. In my 50s, I don't spring to attention
as easily as I did in my earlier years. But aging has done little to quell the
intense sensitivity that's always made me cum in an eyeblink. Tonight,