The Wedding Guest

The Wedding Guest

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Title: The Wedding Guest
Author: T.S. Arthur
Edition: 10
Language: English
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THE WEDDING GUEST:
A FRIEND OF THE BRIDE AND BRIDEGROOM.
EDITED BY T.S. ARTHUR.
CHICAGO, ILL.:
1856.

THERE is no relation in life so important--none involving so much of
happiness or misery, as that of husband and wife. Yet, how rarely is it,
that the parties when contracting this relation, have large experience,
clear insight into character, or truly know themselves! In each other,
they may have the tenderest confidence, and for each other the warmest
love; but, only a brief time can pass ere they will discover that the
harmonious progression of two minds, each of which has gained an
individual and independent movement is not always a thing of easy

attainment. Too soon, alas! is felt a jar of discord--too soon self-will
claims an individual freedom of action that is not fully accorded; and
unless there is wisdom and forbearance, temporary or permanent
unhappiness is sure to follow.
Much has been written on the true relation of married partners, and we
cannot do a better service to the bride and bridegroom, than by
gathering words of wisdom on this subject from all sources within our
reach, and presenting them in as attractive a form as possible. And this
we have done in the present volume, to which, as the title-page
indicates, we bear only the relation of editor. In it will be found
pictures of life, serious counsel, earnest admonition, and hints and
suggestions, which, if wisely followed, will keep the sky bright with
sunshine, or scatter the gathering clouds ere they break in angry storms.
May this "WEDDING GUEST" receive as warm a welcome as we
desire.

CONTENTS.

THE EVENING BEFORE MARRIAGE 7 THE WIFE 14 MARRIAGE
30 THE BRIDE'S SISTER 34 LOVE vs. HEALTH 35 THE YOUNG
HOUSEKEEPER 45 TO AN ABSENT WIFE 57 THE WORD OF
PRAISE 58 LETTERS TO A YOUNG WIFE FROM A MARRIED
LADY 71 THE WIFE 82 BE GENTLE WITH THY WIFE 83 A TRUE
TALE OF LIFE 84 MAN AND WOMAN 102 THE FAIRY
WIFE--AN APOLOGUE 106 A BRIEF HISTORY, IN THREE
PARTS, WITH A SEQUEL 109 ELMA'S MISSION 111 LIVING
LIKE A LADY 128 LADY LUCY'S SECRET 133 A WORD FOR
WIVES 144, NO JEWELLED BEAUTY 147 THE FIRST
MARRIAGE IN THE FAMILY 148 ONLY A FEW WORDS 156
THE TWO HOMES 163 LOVE'S FAIRY RING 170 FANNIE'S
BRIDAL 172 THE LOVER AND THE HUSBAND 182 NELLIE 185
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