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Cunnilingus - Oral
sex upon a vulva
What is cunnilingus?
Cunnilingus is the fine art of making love
to a vagina with your mouth and tongue. It
is a delicate skill, requiring patience,
practice, and dedication to get it right, but
any woman you learn to do it right for will
appreciate you all the more for it.
What applies to the penis applies to the
vulva-- every one is different, requiring a
different touch to make its owner happy.
But few tools can equal the tongue for the
amount of pleasure it can deliver to a
happy vagina.
This article assumes that you know what a
vulva looks like and can identify with some
precision the mons veneris, labia majora,
clitoral hood, clitoris, labia minora, urethra,
vagina, and perineum, to name them
(approximately) from top to bottom.
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How fast should I go?
This isn't an attack. Don't go after the
clitoris like a fireman attacking a fire. Quite
often at first, the clitoris is far too sensitive
for direct stimulation. Lick around it,
stimulating the hood, teasing her inner
labia, tasting her. Take your time and
listen to her. Some women make noise,
and some do not. It will be a while before
you learn exactly what your lover prefers
as far as oral sex is concerned.
Some women may like additional
stimulation-- a finger or two into the
vagina, or perhaps even the anus. She
may want your hands to reach up and
play with her breasts, or she may want
your fingers to hold her labia apart so that
your tongue can get at her vulva more
directly.
I've heard cunnilingus
doesn't taste good.
If the taste or smell bothers you or is a
concern, ask her to wash first. Most
people who enjoy cunnilingus agree that a
clean vagina is a good, if acquired, taste.
As a woman nears her climax, she may
want more direct stimulation. In general,
fast, rhythmic stimulation is most effective
at causing climax-- but there shouldn't be
a rush to get there. Take your time and
learn to appreciate what you can do for
her.
What about
cunnilingus during
menstruation?
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Some people are particularly turned off at
the suggestion of cunnilingus during
menstruation. If it is a concern to you,
then wait. A tampon may well hold the
blood back, as will a diaphragm, but some
men can't stand the taste anyway. If your
partner is healthy, however, there is no
particular danger in menstrual blood, and
some women find that orgasms during
their periods allievate cramps.
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Fellatio
In fellatio, the woman sucks, licks, kisses and
strokes her partner's penis. Exquisitely satisfying
for the man, fellatio can also give enormous
erotic pleasure to the woman as she senses his
responses and his total abandonment to her.
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Fellatio - Oral sex
upon a penis
What is Fellatio?
Fellatio, giving head, giving a blow-job. Many men
love this kind of stimulation, and many people,
both women and men, like giving it. Fellatio is the
act of applying your lips to a man's penis with the
purpose of giving him pleasure.
There are few tips to fellatio that can be given
other than practice. The lips and the tongue are
the major sources of stimulation, and it is with the
lips and tongue that you should apply the
attention to make him feel good. Both men and
women respond well to pressure and rhythm. A
steady, strong stroke will be enough to get the
reaction you're looking for.
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What if it doesn't smell
or taste good?
If the smell isn't something you enjoy, then tell
him to go take a shower! While this is something
you're doing primarily for his pleasure, that
doesn't mean you have to suffer if he's lacking in
hygiene! And if you're worried about germs, your
mouth has millions more germs than a clean
penis.
What is "deep
throating?"
Deep throating is the act of taking the penis down
past your gag reflex. In reality, this particular
sexual adventure is very overrated. The best way
to give fellatio is still with the lips and tongue,
taking only as much as you can without gagging.
However, for those that want to know, the basic
lesson is still practice. Take the penis