Sex Secrets - How To Turn A Woman On Satisfy Her In A Big Way | Page 2

to tell you might sound like just
‘interesting’ ideas, or unusual things to do.
Not so.
While they may be interesting and unusual, they are all specifically to
appeal to the female mind and mating preferences. 50,000 years ago
women had to figure out some way to determine if a man was going to be a
good provider and a loyal mate.
I believe that the concept of ‘Romance’ was that way.

If a man was really interested, he would go through some
demonstrations of his devotion... and be willing to wait for sex.
And so it goes. Women love things like ‘taking your time’,
‘anticipation’, ‘sensory rich experiences’, ‘romantic talk’ and ‘foreplay.’
I know, I know. We all want a woman that gets turned on by just
seeing your unshaven face and dirty hair in the morning. But these are the
cards we were dealt, and we might as well learn how to play them in this
lifetime.
Onward.
So I just mentioned a bunch of ideas. Let’s tie them together.
As far as the senses go: In general, women get turned on by a few
major categories of things:
1. Voice tone, sensual (not sexual) language, and vivid descriptions.
Women love to hear a sexy voice describing ideas, feelings, and
scenarios in painful detail.
2. A wide range of different touching, kissing, stroking, caressing, and
cuddling.
3. Smells and smelling. Women love great cologne. And women love
to be smelled.
4. Tastes. Women love to be fed all kinds of wonderful things like
Strawberries, chocolate, and champagne.
Did you notice anything missing from the list?
I left out SIGHT on my list. Why?
Well, women don’t get turned on as much by sight as they do by other
senses. Men are usually more turned on by visuals than by the other four
senses combined.
Women are turned on more by the others.
It’s true that what you look like can PREVENT you from being
attractive due to not taking care of yourself, not being her ‘type’ or
whatever.
But I believe (and have proven to myself over and over) that if you
pave the way correctly, you can overcome looks and get a woman VERY
sexually stimulated by using her other senses and her imagination.

Next I talked about how women notice details. Women notice subtle
things. If you rub a woman’s hand, she’ll feel warm and friendly toward you.
If you very very gently and slowly run the tips of your fingers over her
hand, she will begin to get aroused (other conditions have to be right, of
course).
If you kiss a woman on the lips and stick your tongue down her throat,
she’ll probably be disgusted. But if you kiss her gently... then slowly pull
away and look into her eyes... then kiss her again slowly and gently... you’ll
start a fire inside of her that will build (if you do everything else correctly as
well).
I also mentioned romance. To me, romance is simply demonstrating to
a woman that this whole encounter and ‘relationship’ with her is meaningful.
It’s a way of saying “I want to create a great experience for you” to
her. If you play up the romance too much, you’ll push a button inside of a
woman called “He loves me and wants to marry me.” So be careful.
I recommend sticking to the kinds of romance that involve the senses,
and not the kind that involve money, gifts, and love letters. There’s nothing
wrong with these... it’s just that they lead to the M word. If you want a wife,
great. If not, use care and stick to the senses.
Anticipation
I believe that anticipation, excitement, and tension are some of the
biggest turn-ons that a woman can feel. Women LOVE to wonder what’s
coming next. They LOVE to be surprised. They LOVE to be waiting on the
edge of their seats.
Here are a few ways to do it:
1. Say “I have a surprise for you.” Then say “But I’m not going to give
it to you yet... it’s for later.” The surprise can be anything from a
piece of chocolate to some melon-scented massage oil that you
bought to rub her shoulders. It doesn’t matter. The key is to pique
her curiosity and make her want to know what it is.
2. Put a blindfold on her. Women LOVE to be blindfolded! Don’t ask,
just do it. Go grab a scarf out of your closet (silk if you have it) and
put it on her. Remember, women are turned on more by their other
senses anyway. Turning their vision off heightens their other senses
and makes them even more responsive.

3. When you’re doing something that’s turning her on, STOP. This
seems counter-intuitive, but it’s the promise land. Guys like to find
what feels good and KEEP DOING IT BABY. Women like to have
what feels good taken away... so they can feel some more
anticipation!
Do you get it? Come up with your own ways to build anticipation. Tell
her a story about someone that felt anticipation. Tell her you’re feeling it.
Whatever. Just make her anticipate what’s coming next.
Stimulating Her Senses
So how do you best stimulate these other four senses in a way that
will turn her on? Now