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elp in g th eir p artn er o rg asm
, a n d c u nnilin gus is a
gre at w ay to do th is
. W hile not eve ry o n e lo ve s cu nnilin gus or ca n
ach ie ve o rg asm f r o m it
, m an y p eop le fi nd it t o b e t h e b est w ay f o r t h em
to o rg asm o r t o g et t h em t u rn ed o n f o r o th er s e xu al a d ve n tu re s
.
Cunnilin gus ca n b e a g re at w ay to re la x yo u r b od y w hile p ro vid in g
ple asu re t o y o u r p artn er
.
So w it h all of th ese ab so lu te ly fa b ulo u s re aso n s to giv e an d get
cu nnilin gus
, w hy th e h eck w ou ld a n yo n e n ot b e lin ed u p fo r d in ner a t
th e Y ?
Wit h th e c a ve at th at s o m e p eop le
j ust p la in d on ’t lik e re ce iv in g o ra l
se x
, a n d th at’s 1
00
p erc e n t O K
— to e ach th eir o w n
— le t’s ta lk a b ou t
so m e r e aso n s t h at c u nnilin gus m ay s e em m yste rio u s
, d iffi cu lt
, o r e ve n
weir d t o s o m e p eop le
.
Fir s t
, th ere are a lo t of m yth s aro u nd th e va g in a
, th e vu lv a
, an d
cu nnilin gus
. I’ll b e ta lk in g a b ou t th e a n ato m y o f th e v u lv a a lit tle b it
la te r
, b ut f o r n ow
, le t’s g et s ta rte d w it h s o m e m yth b ustin g
.
A N OTE O N G EN DER
: T he s p ectr u m o f s e xu alit y is h uge a n d ra re ly
dis cu sse d
. A v a rie ty o f g en der id en tit ie s e n co m pass p eop le a s a w hole
.
Not a ll w om en -id en tifi ed p eop le h ave a v u lv a
, a n d n ot e ve ry o n e w it h a
vu lv a id en tifi es a s a w om an
. T hro u ghou t th is b ook
, I’ll b e u sin g th e
te rm w om an a n d th e p ro n ou ns s h e
, h er
, a n d h ers fo r e ase o f r e ad in g
.
But it ’s im porta n t to k eep in m in d th at a n yo n e w it h a v u lv a c a n e n
j oy
cu nnilin gus a n d t h at n ot e ve ry o n e w it h a v u lv a u se s f e