Letters to His Son 1748 | Page 4

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LETTERS TO HIS SON 1748
By the EARL OF CHESTERFIELD
on the Fine Art of becoming a
MAN OF THE WORLD
and a

GENTLEMAN

LETTER XXIV
January 2, O. S. 1748.
DEAR BOY: I am edified with the allotment of your time at Leipsig;
which is so well employed from morning till night, that a fool would
say you had none left for yourself; whereas, I am sure you have sense
enough to know, that such a right use of your time is having it all to
yourself; nay, it is even more, for it is laying it out to immense interest,
which, in a very few years, will amount to a prodigious capital.
Though twelve of your fourteen 'Commensaux' may not be the liveliest
people in the world, and may want (as I easily conceive that they do) 'le
ton de la bonne campagnie, et les graces', which I wish you, yet pray
take care not to express any contempt, or throw out any ridicule; which
I can assure you, is not more contrary to good manners than to good
sense: but endeavor rather to get all the good you can out of them; and
something or other is to be got out of everybody. They will, at least,
improve you in the German language; and, as they come from different
countries, you may put them upon subjects, concerning which they
must necessarily be able to give you some useful informations, let them
be ever so dull or disagreeable in general: they will know something, at
least, of the laws, customs, government, and considerable families of
their respective countries; all which are better known than not, and
consequently worth inquiring into. There is hardly any body good for
every thing, and there is scarcely any body who is absolutely good for
nothing. A good chemist will extract some spirit or other out of every
substance; and a man of parts will, by his dexterity and management,
elicit something worth knowing out of every being he converses with.
As you have been introduced to the Duchess of Courland, pray go there
as often as ever your more necessary occupations will allow you. I am
told she is extremely well bred, and has parts. Now, though I would not
recommend to you, to go into women's company in search of solid
knowledge, or judgment, yet it has its use in other respects; for it
certainly polishes the manners, and gives 'une certaine tournure', which
is very necessary in the course of the world; and which Englishmen
have generally less of than any people in the world.
I cannot say that your suppers are luxurious, but you must own they are

solid; and a quart of soup, and two pounds of potatoes, will enable you
to pass the night without great impatience for your breakfast next
morning. One part of your supper (the potatoes) is the constant diet of
my old friends and countrymen,--[Lord Chesterfield, from the time he
was appointed Lord-lieutenant of Ireland, 1775, used always to call the
Irish his countrymen.]--the Irish, who are the healthiest and the
strongest bodies of men that I know in Europe.
As I believe that many of my letters to you and to Mr. Harte have
miscarried, as well as some of yours and his to me; particularly one of
his from Leipsig, to which he refers in a subsequent one, and which I
never received; I would have you, for the future, acknowledge the dates
of all the letters which either of you shall receive from me; and I will
do the same on my part.
That which I received by the last mail, from you, was of the 25th
November, N. S.; the mail before that brought me yours, of which I
have forgot the date, but which inclosed one to Lady Chesterfield: she
will answer it soon, and, in the mean time, thanks you for it.
My disorder was only a very great cold, of which I am entirely
recovered. You shall not complain for want of accounts from Mr.
Grevenkop, who will frequently write you whatever passes here, in the
German language and character; which will improve you in both.
Adieu.

LETTER XXV
LONDON, January 15, O. S. 1748.
DEAR BOY: I willingly accept the new-year's gift which you promise
me for next year; and the more valuable you make it, the more thankful
I shall be. That depends entirely upon you; and therefore I hope to be
presented, every year, with a new edition of you, more correct than the
former, and considerably enlarged and amended.
Since you do not care to be an assessor of the imperial chamber, and
that you desire an establishment in England; what do you think of being