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with your partner that you want to be able to do it longer. There is
nothing wrong with wanting to make your sex life more and more
wonderful. Too many women settle for less than what they really
want, and I'm glad you're not one of them.
If you are a man reading this book, I know that you care about
making your partner happy in bed and are sensitive to a woman's
sexual needs. You want her to feel fulfilled and satisfied, and
that's terrific. If you didn't, you wouldn't be interested in what I
have to say. Perhaps you are already able to make love for an
extended period of time, and you're reading this because you want to
intensify your pleasure or want to find other ways of expressing
your sexuality. Perhaps you are anxious about your ability to
maintain an erection, or you would like to experience a greater
intensity in your own sexual response. Perhaps you are trying to
rediscover the multiorgasmic ability that you had as a younger man,
or re-create an isolated multiorgasmic experience in your past that
left you wanting more. Perhaps you are just curious.
Whatever your reasons, you are about to discover the wonderful
things that becoming multiorgasmic does for a man. It's not just
your body that will be changing. Your sense of who you are is going
to change, and so is your sense of what you have to offer a woman.
When a man feels good about his sexuality, he feels good about
himself. Sexual confidence creates greater confidence in many other
areas of a man's life. It strengthens self-image and it strengthens
self-esteem. This is powerful stuff.

Four Typical Men Who Want to Learn About Male Multiple Orgasm
You've already met Daniel. Right now, I'd like to introduce you
to four other men: Fred, David, Josh, and Mark. As you will see,

9 each of these men has a different reason for wanting to learn about
male multiple orgasm, and every reason is valid. Maybe you will
recognize some of your own needs and concerns in one of their
stories. I think most men have something in common with at least one
of these four men.

FRED'S STORY
Fred has always found it very easy to express his sexuality. He
is currently married for the second time and he and his wife Janice
have a very active sex life. Because sex is important to Fred, he
wants to make sure it stays that way.
Right now, he and Janice make love almost every night and many
mornings as well. Fred says that to him it's sort of like brushing
his teeth-something you do routinely at regular intervals of the
day. But Fred is becoming worried that his "refractory period"-the
length of time between erections-is getting longer. Or, as Fred puts
it, "Lately, I can't always get it up twice a day." Fred is
interested in finding new techniques that will allow him to continue
to spend large amounts of time having sex with his wife. Janice
thinks that's a pretty good idea.

DAVID'S STORY
David has a completely different reason for being interested in
learning about male multiple orgasm. He worries that he can't keep
an erection long enough to satisfy his wife, Debbie, and he's
concerned that she is not as happy in bed as she would like to be.
It seems that no matter how hard David tries, he can't sustain an
erection for much longer than five minutes. He laughs when he refers
to himself as "a quickie," but he doesn't really think it's funny.
He's willing to try anything that will bring Debbie to orgasm, but
he knows what his wife really needs is prolonged intercourse.
In truth, David never had much control over his erection, but
when he and Debbie first started sleeping together he felt so much
desire that after he reached orgasm he was able to have a second
erection within ten or fifteen minutes. The second time, it was
easier for him to hold back his own orgasm and ejaculation, allowing
him to prolong intercourse long enough for Debbie to reach orgasm.
Over time, however, David lost this ability, and that's been a
problem for Debbie.
Debbie agrees. David has read several books that promise he can
become a great lover by learning to press the right spots on a
woman's body. But when he tries these techniques on Debbie, they
don't really seem to be working. They don't work because other books
don't explain the philosophy behind the techniques, and David ends
up "working on" Debbie instead of enjoying himself.
Touching is nice, and oral sex is great, but Debbie needs more
intercourse to feel