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recognize how easy it is for a man to have sexual
tunnel vision because of the limitations of his own experience. You
also realize how different men are, and how much there is to learn
from the experiences of other men.

I Know What Men Can Do and I Know What Women Want
I have made the study of human sexual response my life's work.
I know what the average man's true capabilities are, and believe me,
they are far more than you could-ever imagine.
I know what women want too because I'm not just a sex
therapist-I'm also a woman. I understand how a woman feels when
she's in bed with someone she loves. On a professional basis, I've
listened to countless women talk about their lovemaking. But even
more revealing in some ways are the hours I have spent talking about
sex with women friends, all of us letting our hair down and telling
the truth about what we like and what we want.
Even a woman who loves a man very deeply can feel frustrated
and unfulfilled by his sexual limitations. Unfortunately, many women
equate sex with compromise and sacrifice. Few women regularly
experience the kind of lovemaking they dream of, and even fewer
believe it's actually possible. That's the bad news. The good news
is that this is about to change.
If you are a woman looking for more satisfaction from your
partner and more understanding for yourself, I'm going to teach you
everything you and your partner need to know about male multiple
orgasm. If you are a man who is reading this book, I want you to
think of me as a personal trainer-someone who can teach you the
techniques and exercises that will change everything you have ever
believed about sex.

6 Can We Talk?
Remember that big "talk" you had about sex with your dad when
you were just a kid? Who could forget it? It was probably one of the
most awkward moments of your childhood, right? Sure he did the best
he could, but you probably were left to fill in a whole lot of gaps
by yourself. Well, it's time for another talk. This time, you and 1
need to talk about sex . . . really talk. If you have a partner, she
should listen too. I'm not going to pull any punches here. When it
comes to sex, there are a lot of things most people just don't know.
I'm not talking about sexual trivia-I'm talking about the critical
things that stop most people from ever having a truly fulfilling sex
life.
Please don't get insulted. I know that you know a lot about
sex. Everyone does, whether they want to or not. After all, it's a
subject that's hard to avoid in the nineties. Turn on the TV, plug
in the radio, open a book, go to the movies, flip through a magazine
. . . what do you see? Sex, sex, sex. From Howard Stern to Melrose
Place, from Donahue to pay-per-view, we're getting educated by
osmosis. But that doesn't mean it's a very good education.
Knowing a lot about sex is not the same as being sexually
fulfilled. Knowing a lot about sex doesn't always change what
happens in the bedroom. No matter how much you've heard, read, and
seen, sex can still feel like the greatest mystery in the world. No
one likes to feel, insecure about something as important as sex, but
the truth is, at some point everyone feels as though everyone else
on the planet is making love more often and more exquisitely than
they are. Sometimes it feels as though all of this sexual education
has only made us more unsure.
It's time to change all that and start filling in all of those
gaps once and for all. I couldn't think of a better place to start
than learning about male multiple orgasm, which will change
everything you ever thought you knew about sex. In fact, it will
change everything. Period. It certainly did for me and for the many
men and women with whom I've worked. I'm sure it will for you too.

Two Men Who Changed My Understanding of Male Sexuality
Male multiple orgasm. Wow! What a concept. I'll never forget
how skeptical I felt when I first heard about it back in 1980. It
was my second week of "basic training" for sexual surrogates at the
Riskin-Banker Psychotherapy Center in Tustin, California.
Sex therapy is an important area of specialization at Riskin-
Banker, and part of their therapeutic work involves the use of
surrogates, both male and female. As it turns out, two of the male
surrogates who worked there at the time were both