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Joel's vacuum pump system for penis enlargement. Believe it
or not this system is FDA approved in the USA. To get this approval does
require clinical trials showing effectiveness. Some Men swear by the use
of pumps as effective tools for increasing size while others think pumps
have no lasting effect. Pumps can extend length while using, but the
question is, "Will the penis return to original size afterward?"
Unfortunately we do not have that answer. The size of a man's penis can
have such a profound affect on his self esteem, and psychologically affect
his sexual performance so strongly that it is easy to see why these pumps
are fairly popular.
Dr. Joel's Pump, complete with quick-release air
valve penis cylinder and easily readable pressure
gauge costs about $200 USD. Cylinders come in
smaller and larger sizes. There is also an option for
enlarging the scrotum as well as the penis.
Who is Dr. Joel? Dr. Joel Kaplan is a graduate from
the University of Chicago and Saybrook Institute in San Francisco, where\

he received his Ph.D. in clinical psychology and human sexuality. Dr.
Kaplan has also been awarded Diplomat status with the American Board
of Sexology in Washington DC and is a registered sex researcher and
certified sex therapist. He is currently in private practice and has been a
pioneer in the usage of vacuum pump therapy for penis enlargement and
sexual dysfunction. Here is how he describes what his pump does: "When
the first airtight vacuum pump cylinder is placed around your penis, blo\
od
rushes into the muscle portion of your penis. The muscle tissue expands \
to
the maximum, breaks down, and then rebuilds into larger and stronger
muscles, similar to body-building."
Cock Rings

If you have plenty of equipment but sometimes
ejaculate sooner than you want, consider cock rings.
Some of these are very inexpensive at under $10. For
just a bit more you can get variations that fit around the man's penis and
also stimulates the woman's clitoris and anus. Some are equipped with
vibrators, others with ball spreaders. Cock rings come in leather, denim
and plastic. They are adjustable to fit around the penis and scrotum. Put
them on before you commence lovemaking and once you are erect the
blood will be restricted from leaving the penis, helping to maintain an
erection.
Another variation is a strip of velcro called Control for Men. This device
allows you to savor your excitement and control ejaculation until you are
ready. You wrap the velcro Control strip around the entire scrotum above
the testicles, prior to arousal. Place the black velcro strip onto the w\
hite
velcro strip to form a continuous loop, with the narrowest part of band
across the back of the scrotum. Leave the "Tab-Tail" available to grasp
between thumb and finger when ejaculation is desired. You may have
noticed that a man's testicles pull up into his body when ejaculation is
imminent. This velcro strip prevents the testicles from rising and this
delays the ejaculation. To permit ejaculation, pull the "Tab-Tail" free, this
will allow the testicles to rise, releasing the semen. Note: sprinkle this item
with talcum powder for increased comfort.
Anal Play
Anal climax beads are available in small,
medium and large size. The small beads are a
the size of cranberries. The beads are strung
together with a pull ring at one end. There are usually 8-10 beads on a \
string. These beads are inserted into the anus of either the man or woma
during lovemaking and are withdrawn at the exact moment of orgasm.
This has the delightful effect of noticeably prolonging the orgasm and
increasing its intensity. Be very careful, gentle and playful when inser
the beads to avoid discomfort. Use lots of lubricant. This might take some
getting used to, but is definitely worth trying. This is an excellent to
help men learn to surrender and let go, allowing their lover to take char
completely. Combine this with tying the man's hands (a common fantasy
of men) and it will be quite an experience for him. Anal beads are quite
inexpensive, starting at under $10.
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There are a large variety of anal butt plugs. The variations in butt plugs
are the same as for dildos: with or without vibrators, rubber or silicone
material (the latter is highly recommended for butt plugs because they can
be boiled for sterilization), all possible colors, sizes and prices. On\
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interesting variation is the inflatable model. This is especially desirable if

you are just beginning to explore anal play. There is also a two-person
"double hitter" model, so both partners can be anally stimulated at the
same time. You can get one that
ejaculates. Prices start at under $10 and
go up to about $100. If you are into